don't know what to do about sex...

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I met a new man and like him. I do have some reservations anyway but generally like him and find him attractive. We've been out a few times and last night things got a bit heated.

We didn't actually have sex but were messing about etc...anyway, when touching him I noticed he had a really small dick . I know it sounds so superficial but am not sure that'd be ok, worried it'd be crap sex...it really was small from what I could work out and now feel like I've gone off him.

Not sure what to do...

May as well give him a chance - what have you got to lose???

oh Nooooo! ditch him..... I had one like that, didn't touch the sides and this is pre kids.

There was a thread on just this topic v recently.

The first bunch of people came and said it was shallow and stupid to ditch a bloke because of penis size.

Then another bunch of people came along and said that sexual compatibility was essential, but they put it more crudely than that.

I won't tell you which camp I was in

I think you're mad. Some of the worst sex I've ever had has been with men with big 'uns. They don't feel like they have to try. They think it's enough for you to be able to worship The Great Penis.

yes but it has to be sort of average really, too big is painful and too small doesn't touch the sides

Does this guy know he has a small penis? That sounds like a dumb question, I know, but it makes all the difference IME.

Exhibit A) Small-dicked guy knows he is small, jokes about it, makes serious effort with tongue/hands. Charming. Went back for more.

Exhibit B) Small-dicked guy has no idea he is small. Pounds away (no, more like squishes away). So bored, nearly fell asleep. Blanked him the next day.

I'm all for giving the guy a chance if you like him otherwise. He may surprise you!

My ex was erm... prepubescent there, I like the little finger comment someone else made! He thought he was massive, even used nicknames that suggested it was. He so thought he was something that he was rubbish.

My partner is circumcised and it has affected his size, he's not small though. But he is great, he has changed since we met because he listened to what I liked and wanted.

I've also been with a guy who was big and knew it and relied on his size. It was horrible!

I do think it's what you do with it and what else you do that counts.

i remember the other thread, i asked my best friend who is male what he thought

he said ditch the bloke

In the words of a friend of mine... it's not how deep you dive, it's how well you swim......

been there, done that

asked if it was in - answer was yes

couldnt stay with him, willy was small and thin like a pencil - prob fab for giving bj's to

maybe it was small as he want turned on/tired etc

ie did he have a stonking hard on - or was he floppy - could he grow bigger?

He may well overcompensate in other(ORAL)areas if you are lucky!!!!!!!!wink

Lol at Friday32!!! Gotta be worth it just for that?!

Yes, you never know! He might have a twelve inch tongue and the ability to breathe through his ears!

An very eminent professor once told this to a graduate class I was sitting in. I was veryed.

Q: Why do women always park too far away from the kerb?

A: Because their menfolk always lie to them about how big 6 inches really is!

Poor bloke

Can you imagine if a man came on here and said that he'd been dating a woman but on having sex with her discovered that it was like a cavern down there? I hope we'd all be equally gleeful in our cries of 'Ditch her!'