Dp had his drink spiked on a night out. I was a little annoyed and a little worried when he wasnt in by 4.30am so I rang him and all I could hear were these groaning noises. I found him in the street later that night, and he wasn't anything like himself. He was scared and weird.
Tonight he's out with his friends and I just want to sit up all night and wait for him to come home. I'm worried sick and I didn't want him to go out.
I told him he had to be in by 2.30am. His ex is trying to get in with his mates and family at the moment (clearly wants him back) and he's going out with those friends so I've said if she's out with them, he's to come home. I've told him he's not allowed to drink too much or leave his drink even for a second, and he has to text me every hour or 2 so that I'm not panicking.
This feels so controlling and horrible but when I saw him that night and he had no control over himself, it terrified me. He's normally a very strong man and he looks after us. It terrifys me that he could get into a position where he can't even look after himself.
There is also a LOT of violence around here at the moment.
I know it sounds like I'm a control freak and trying to justify why, but these are very real fears.