To not want to talk to this woman any more?

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maybe the bitch in question is a MNer and is about to post AIBU to get this 3 year old kicked out of preschool? and then will see this thread and realise how horrific and vile she is?

I would change it a bit and put something like

"Your behaviour on Saturday was truly appalling.

As a result of your behaviour you have caused serious distress to other people.

Our support is with X and her parents and I hope you reconsider your actions carefully."

I wouldn't threaten her (e.g. by telling her she can't participate in social events) or insult her (e.g. telling her she is the one that is the product of a bad upbringing) as I think it would be counterproductive and bring you down to her level (well not quite as bad). I would use it to outline your reaction/thoughts to her behaviour.

I would just find a way of telling her that it is unacceptable without sinking to her level.

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would love you to send the note,... but, no, that's just stooping to her level.
Will you she her to talk to?
If so, I would definitely be saying...
Have to say xxxx, I was really shocked by your petition on Sat. You do realise that is extremely thoughtless, rude and hurtful. I was really shocked and I think you should be considering how that has affected mumofhittingdd

would love you to send the note,... but, no, that's just stooping to her level.
Will you she her to talk to?
If so, I would definitely be saying...
Have to say xxxx, I was really shocked by your petition on Sat. You do realise that is extremely thoughtless, rude and hurtful. I was really shocked and I think you should be considering how that has affected mumofhittingdd

This woman has more front than Blackpool!! How dare she do that? she'll have a shock when her child goes to school has she never heard of inclusion? I'd have a kind word with the other mum tbh! all kids go through stages and just because her child may be angelic now doesn't mean she will be later

Thats just terrible and good for you for standing up to her. The child is three years old for goodness sake!!!
My dd went through an awful stage of biting other children, from the age of 2 till she was just over three, thank goodness for the mums of her friends who were really understanding with me and her. I felt awful and that it just wasn't worth taking my dd out anywhere. This mother must feel so sad about the whole situation.

thank god thislittle girl and her parents have people around like you and most of the other parents to offer them support in the face of TRULY horrific actions of this awful woman.

Something similar is going on at a very reputable catholic primary school up the road where people are scratching and clawing at each other to get their kids in, horrible nastiness towards a child with asd and his parents, quite the opposite of "chritian attitude" makes me

This will come back and bite the woman on the bum when her dd is hauled up for bullying at secondary school no doubt.

Grief that woman is horrid beyond belief!
She has clearly not heard of inclusion. What is she going to do when her little darling goes to reception and there may be a SN child there (not saying that The child is SN)
We had two SN children in our pre-school and the children have been taught how to say NO! in Makaton if he does something unwanted and they know when to avoid him if he is in a throwing mood or pinching mood.
He will be going to Reception like all the other children.
Stand together against the spitefull woman and maybe SHE will leave?

YANBU

Horrid, nasty, cow. er children will be the ones with the "bad upbringing" as she put it, with this woman as a example.

Disgusting. As if being a mum to toddlers isnt hard enough.

Cut her out!

Print this thread out and leave that as a fecking note.

Do not invite her to any other social events, she will get the message.

I am glad the little girls parents are working with everyone and admit their daughter has a problem though, DS1 was bullied by a child in school that had been thrown out of 3 pre schools and his parents never admitted he was a problem, even now this boy is in high school his parents still insist he never does anything, shocking bad parents imo.

I am sure with support this little girl will do just fine, this nasty mother is going to have a bloody shock when she gets to the real world of school.

It is awful

I would perhaps contact the mum of the 3 year old and see if there was anything you could do to help.. obv not in a patronising way, but she might be at her wits end and have no support whatsoever

Tell nightmare woman you find her behaviour unacceptable and so do most other people. Say it simply and work out what you're going to say in advance - preferably as you're leaving so you don't get drawn into a slanging match

Please please speak to the staff tomorrow, they need to know what is going on

Update??????

I am speechless. What a bitch woman.

New thread in AIBU but I can not do link