to want to throttle someone elses 4yr old??

[Nemoandthefishes]

little boy in adams class is a horror, he is on 'report' etc but no better.
anyways adam has tried being nice to him etc and yesterday he was greeted with a return to school headbutt in the stomach and kick ot the willy..this was while we were waiting to go in to school and the boys mum just oh xxx dont do that, not apologise or thats naughty or anythign like that. Was fuming but adam said he was ok and then the door opened.
Today ds[5] took some of his old match attax cards in..he has been takign new ones in but has run out of swaps with them. Anyways again waiting to go in he offered this boy one of them..they dont really swap them as such they just give them to each other. the little horror started telling ds he was thick and stupid cos they were not match attax cards, poor ds stood there looking mortified and said they are I have been buying them for a year. So the little lad took the 5 cards he had and ripped them up. I was fuming as ds looked like he wanted to cry and the lads mum just shrugged her shoulders...am absolutely fuming and felt like kicking off but I dont know what to do as his parents dont care. I just told ds not to worry as xxx was a horrible little boy and I would buy him some new ones on the way home...

YABU and it's a horrid thread title. It's not the little boy's fault.

However, much sympathy to you and your little boy. Sounds really hard and I don't blame you for being upset.

Have you decided what you're going to do?

i would speak to the parents and if that is not an option go to the head teacher,but if that didnt work i would tell the boy off myself.

hi all
headteacher is very aware as are parents as they were obviously brought in to school when he went on report. I did mean throttle the mother hance I said I wanted to have a word..the reason I didnt is because I was dealing with ds and a 2 and 3yr old and am 6mths pregnant and the door opened for class so she got off and the kids went in.