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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

I suspect I am but after 3y ttc, 8mc's and 1 ep to expect that dh might actually behave like an adult

38 replies

OracleInaCoracle · 08/03/2009 20:39

most of you know the story. ttc has been a rough old ride for us. today dh played football in a local cup. his team beat the top of the league 5-2 in the semi final. I am v happy for him. he is the secretary and takes all the training sessions every weds. plays footie every sun. tomorrow I ovulate. all the signs are that I will ov from the tubed side, which has been very rare since the ep. so tonight is CD13, and a good one.

I went to see him in the pub at 2 (he was there since 12) and asked him not to get too drunk. promised him a hot bath, takeaway, with me in slinky lingerie for pudding. I am v careful not to turn sex into baby-making and have been trying to spice up our sex life for quite a while.

so he rolls in at 7. ds is still up and dh throws him around and tickles him. i hate ds seeing him drunk, so I am pissed off. he is slurring his words to the point where he is barely coherant.

i asked dh to go upstairs and grab the baby wipes for me. 10 mins later he's still not down. i go up and he is lying in bed. wide awake and fully dressed. doesnt think he has done anything wrong.

he is now fast asleep. pissed, stinky and sleeping.

I am so, so pissed off with him.

AIBU? i can take it!

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OracleInaCoracle · 08/03/2009 21:57

ah wannabe, i do see your point. i suppose i just feel that we are trying for a baby, and the time has long gone when we can afford to just leave it to chance. even if it is. i didnt mind him staying out for a few beers but i do mind him getting into that sort of state.

lol anyfucker.. ok, but i will be wearing my flannel pj's instead of the sexy undies/stocking combo i had planned

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OracleInaCoracle · 08/03/2009 21:58

pmsl ladybee, should i sign it with a x?

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sandcastles · 08/03/2009 22:25

No, Lissie YANBU.

I hate it when dh comes in like that, because it normally means that he comes in, eats & collapses on the couch, thus leaving me with 2 dcs & an untidy house to sort!

And we aren't TTCing!

OracleInaCoracle · 08/03/2009 22:40

right, im going in. wish me luck!!

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AnyFucker · 08/03/2009 22:48

jump to it lissie !!!

Knickers0nMaHead · 08/03/2009 22:50

You are nbu at all!!!!! That behaviour deerves a bucket of ice cod water thrown all over him!!!! for you"!

Knickers0nMaHead · 08/03/2009 22:51

*cold

DeeBlindMice · 08/03/2009 23:07

a bucket of iced cod would definitely wake him up

OracleInaCoracle · 09/03/2009 10:35

well, he was too drunk last nigt and ds got up at 6.15

still, he has apologised.

a lot!

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AnyFucker · 09/03/2009 11:22

afternoon delight then ??????

OracleInaCoracle · 10/03/2009 21:20

pretty sure i have ov'd today, so there is hope!!

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AnyFucker · 11/03/2009 07:13
Grin
Lulumama · 11/03/2009 07:16

also, perhaps he wanted to avoid sex as he is so afraid of you going through the pain of another miscarriage, so sabotaged the evening?

YAB a tiny bit U,but i understand

fingers crossed x

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