We are a group of friends who were planning on meeting up tonight at my house. One of my friends is having issues so we thought it would be a good idea to help her out. I had arranged to do this next week but one friend lets say A said we should do it earlier rather than later and the earliest date was today. I was planning to be away this weekend but decided this was important enough to change my plans for and sent DH off to his parents as planned, DD decided she wanted to go with him to see her cousin. My friend A had emailed me earlier in the week asking whether she should bring her kids or not, I emailed back and said it was up to her whether she did or didn?t. I got no response so didn?t know if they were coming or not. Well today my family were round and were going off to see my brother so granny asks DS if he wants to go with and of course he says YES. So now I?m childless. I decided to ring A to let her know, she got a bit funny and said if kids aren?t there then I won?t come. I assured her kids would be fine without mine and there would be plenty for them to do, same as what they would do in their own house. She said no and is now not coming. She was a bit shirty that my kids aren?t going to be home but I could hardly say to DS you cant go to your cousins house could I?
AIBU to be annoyed as I cancelled my plans to arrange this dinner and because she was bringing friend B who can no longer come as no lift its only me and friend C!