a relative has died. is an uncle by marriage who dh was not close to and only saw at weddings and funerals. he didnt even particularly like him while he was alive. funeral isnt to tuesday
in fact the death isnt even the reason he cancelled but because i went out to do the food shop and asked him to hoover while i was out. i then went and spent over £100 on food etc and came home to find he hadnt lifted a finger and then phoned the 2 couples to cancel. i said why do that all cleaning done (by me) except floors and all food bought and he said "its just easier".
now i specifically asked him this morning if he was happy to go ahead as i left to do food shop and he said yes.
would you not be annoyed??????????