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to be annoyed that im sat inwaiting for police, because of twating nieghbour....

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drlove8 · 04/03/2009 13:39

again!... today i woke up and noticed my garden has been vandelised again!.... its the twating neighbours,at it again- long running history.to cut the story short the garden is wrecked and the drying pole(for washing) has been ripped up. as its a council property, the vandalism must be reported to the police an a crime number obtained or i will be charged for the repairs. this is the second time this has happened. the police are "on there way", and i know they have more important things to deal with, but im fed up as d4 has had to be kept off nursery, and todays her day for her S.A.L.T .-so my wee one has missed her speach thearapy because of the twatting neighbour and his skanky mates.FFS ive got enough to deal with having a disabled toddler, without this to suffer as well. there is also a garden bench appeared as well, it looks suspiciously like the ones that are in the maggies centre garden, thats about 5 mins away..... i wonder if they have any missing?[ hmm].

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earthpixie · 04/03/2009 15:09

God almighty! You poor thing. How vile to live next to such lowlife idiots. Could you request a transfer using this as evidence?

OnlyWantsOne · 04/03/2009 15:23

I would write a letter to your council stating clearly your concerns and experience. Copy this letter to your local MP and to the police contact.

Mindless vandalism needs to be stopped. It's such a terrible shame these cretins think that behaving like this is acceptable.

Feel very sorry, maybe next time you could tell the police that yes, you need to speak to them - but them coming round when they can isn't acceptable in all circumstances and see if they could come at more acceptable time for you. Esp so your DD doesnt miss out on her ST.

Em

drlove8 · 04/03/2009 17:08

earthpixie- ive been waiting for a newhouse for 5 years.. have harrasment points because of the muppets, but fact is i need a very large house and there is not many wth council.( by the way i do pay full rent and tax, i may have a large family but i work and take care of them).... am saving for a deposit for a bought house, but i dont think i'll be able to get a morgage that covers what we need.private rents are about triple what we pay now and i couldnt stretch that far either.... so we are stuck[ sad]......police have been contacted every time and it makes no difference , the nightmare in question is 15yr old, and doesnt care one jot!

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drlove8 · 04/03/2009 17:18

ive just had a visit from dd4's education liasion (pre-school community team) she popped around because dd missed her S.a.l.t.ive told her what happened and showed her the damage and shes ed.she has offered to get in touch with the council and write a letter to them highlighting how badly this nightmare is affecting my daughter..... she cant get to play in our garden as it isnt safe because of the neighbours.as she was leaving she caught the nightmare lad up a ladder at my hall window! WTF>???? i dont think he realised i was in, and was trying to get in the window! ...am scared to be in my own home now,....

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wotulookinat · 04/03/2009 17:27

You have my sympathy. My mum has a young lad two doors down who causes terror in their area.

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LyraSilvertongue · 04/03/2009 17:32

Why hasn't this boy been prosecuted. of course he thinks it's acceptable behaviour because he doesn't get punished.
for you. I hope you get your transfer as soon as possible.
Btw, where are his parents when he's behaving like this? Are they just as bad?

drlove8 · 04/03/2009 17:41

the council cant keep him off the property, im in a flat above his and we share some of the garden- entrences to the flats, the gardens are open plan, but are clearly boundried ,(i have right side side, nieghbour has left.)as for truancy officer - he's been excluded from every school in the area, has social workers ( they came to my door once looking for his mum)... his dad buggered off and left his mum with 5 kids on her own.... she tries her best, but he is uncontrolable, he's the youngest, 3 oldest have left home.i cant get a dog as dd4 has suspected autism and is terrified of dogs- she screams non stop when she see's dogs.the boy has no set time of doing things..... could be during the day or 2am in the morning...

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drlove8 · 04/03/2009 17:44

he has already been done for assault. ... i dont dare let my kids out to play unless its a playdate at some friends house.......10 hours and still no police!

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BONKERZ · 04/03/2009 17:53

we had a big problem with next door neighbours kid who would constantly cause damage to our property etc. we contacted the council and had to video anything that he did, which meant being in the front line for a while. we also had to record days and times etc and report to police. The council wrote a stern warning to the neighbours , a 2nd warning came 4 weeks later and then they were threatened with eviction which sorted them out and we have had no trouble from them for a year or so now. The video evidence of any unsociable behaviour will help the police build a case for ASBO

deste · 04/03/2009 19:39

I agree with above poster take photographs. Him up the ladder trying to get in would be evidence to the police and council of harrassment. Photograph everything.

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