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2 be a little upset that he went out...

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mum2b09 · 28/02/2009 00:13

Im 38 weeks pregnant and have been having slow labour pains for a few days now iv been n agony al day today but my pains still have no pattern and my water hasnt gone so iv been tld 2 stay at home and rest. my bf has been out all day and when he finally came home i was so happy not to be on my own and he tells me hes going out into town drinking with his mates..

i really needed abit of support tonight as iv had a really crappy day and although id never stop him going out im scared ill go into labour while hes out and he wont be in any state to be at a hospital if hes had a few..

am i beng unreasonable that i was a little upset that hes left me on my own in pain when i asked him if he would stay in because im in the house alone?? x

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Coldtits · 28/02/2009 00:15

YANBU

He is being a twat.

However.

Diplomacy suggests you don't tell him this just yet.

Ring him up and say you heard a noise in the garden and you think someone was trying the back door and you're scared.... then cry.

lockets · 28/02/2009 00:16

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hannahlouhoo · 28/02/2009 00:20

yanbu

coldtits have you done this before????
i could learn lots from you!!

ChippingIn · 28/02/2009 00:27

YA absolutely and without a doubt NOT BU

He is being a bastard of the first order. Does he usually treat you this badly?

He needs a good kicking talking to. This is (well I presume anyway) his baby too and he needs to step up to the plate and take responsibility. Not to mention you are his gf and he should be far more caring of you.

How dare he leave you in your condition??

Ties up laces on steel capped Docs..... grrrr

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mum2b09 · 28/02/2009 00:27

haha im glad im not being completely rediculous to be upset.. coldtits you are a genius haha

Im okay atm lockets just feeling like period cramps in my stomach and pain in my lower back but nothing excruciating but its hard to sleep hopefully baby will decide 2 come soon not tonight tho while daddys in the pub! lol xx

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mum2b09 · 28/02/2009 00:31

He is usually abit more considerate thanthis but lately i feel like he doesnt even want to be around me and im alone quite alot. When hes here we get on quite well but i feel abit lonely most of the time i just hope it changes when the babys born because i do love him so much i dont really understand him lately its like hes forgotten that im pregnant and is treating me abit crappy maybe hes just stressed out i dnt no x

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lockets · 28/02/2009 00:32

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mum2b09 · 28/02/2009 00:42

haha its okay hes in work at 9 ill have no sympathy lol!

yeah the bath is my best friend atm its unbelieveable how relaxing it can be just to lie in a nice warm bath i could stay there forever

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Peridot30 · 28/02/2009 00:44

I would be mad!!!!!!!!!!!

Dh never had a drink from me being 36 weeks just incase and both children were 10/11days late

lockets · 28/02/2009 00:54

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Helen31 · 28/02/2009 11:08

Coming to this a bit late, but most of the mums-to-be in my antenatal class have banned their DPs from drinking AT ALL. We are all around 38-40 weeks too.

I'm more concerned by what you say about him seeming distant and treating you a bit crappy. This is my first, so other's will be more expert, but I think it is unlikely things will get easier when the baby arrives. I think you two need to sit down and have a serious talk to find out what is bothering him asap.

Good luck! Oh, and what Coldtits said too!

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