to be upset that my husband has a picture of a woman he works with

[suzalli]

I came home early from work and found a picture of a woman my husband works with in a frame up on his desk where he had been working. I asked him about it and he said he printed it out for her but over the last few days I thought to myself why put it in a frame and put it up on his desk. I asked him again and he could see I was upset, he said that he didn't know why he did it and that he loves me and he started to cry saying nothing has happened. I'm beginning to wonder, if nothing has happened am I being unreasonable to feel upset and cross with him?

it's a weird and provocative thing to do. i think he did it to draw attention to something that's been going on. Perhaps he's feeling guilty and doing something so obvious (and strange) is his way of starting a confession/revelation.

sorry for you. men are such twits.

very odd, and tears
i would be upset,too/

yanbu how very, very strange!!
don't know but it doesn't sound great...

the tears are either nerves, distraction or some weird form of relief