Yes, I more than likely am but for some reason I can't form any kind of rational thoughts regarding this!
It was the Saturday after Christmas & it was my ds's birthday. We weren't having a party for him as we didn't have one for dd this year either.
Anyway, my sister lives v.near us & we are all very close. She called me to say they were coming over & I said I was just about to prepare some 'oarty' style food & would I stick on some extra for them & their kids. She said yes that would be lovely & they just had a message to do in the next town & would be right over after that.
So, anyway, I bunged the food in the oven, had a quick clean up & got ds's cake out. Told him that aunt X & uncle Y were coming with the kids... you know, a little bit of excitement...
Anyway, the food was ready & I text her to say it was ready & would they be long... ONLY at that point did I get a text from her saying 'oh yea, sorry, meant to msg you, we've stopped in at the hotel here for some dinner, we'll still call with you, might be late though.'
So I replied saying 'thanks for letting me know, it might've been even better if you said BEFORE I cooked all the extra food'
When they arrived she made a big joke out of me being angry.. things like 'have you cooled down yet' 'steam coming out of ears' etc... I couldn't get her to see that what she done was so bad mannered.
Anyway, something similar happened this morning (Won't go into details here as this post is long enough) & it has just raked all the feelings back again!!
Fully prepared to be told IABU, I know I am a bit not to have gotten over this, I just think it's awful to treat people badly & I seem to let her do this a lot to me!