To bring up sexualised pictures of 13 year old to her mother?

[NikosNikki]

I have my friend's 13 (I think she's almost 14) year old daughter on my facebook friends list. She has just updated her pictures and they're all in sexual poses. Pouting at the camera, one is the camera looking down on her with bare legs etc and another is of her crawling along a bed, hair all messed up licking her lips. Its VERY suggestive.

She is a pretty girl but these photos are not nice. She has a lot of boys on her account and they will all see these. I'm a bit worried but I suspect her mother will know.

AIBU to bring it up? Even if its just to point out to her mum how these photos come across when browsing her profile?

Or is this normal for 13/14 year olds?

Welcome to MN, NikosNikki.

ForeverOptimistic, one of my sisters puts highly, um, suggestive poses on her profile pics, but her mother couldn't give a monkey's. Sad, really.

Goodness, what an interesting life you do lead. Screwing a married man and having a friend's daughter posing suggestively on facebook.

Do tell us more?

Do you perchance park in disabled spaces?

Drink fruitshoots?

Do you partake of a Greggs sausage roll daily?

Well getting back to this thread, I would mention the photos in passing. Just ask the mum if she has seen the new photos. If she isn't added as a friend, suggest that she should be.

tell her mum

In this situation, I would first try to find out if her mother had actually seen the pics - maybe an offhand remark, nothing too dramatic. Then take it from there.

She's a farking TROLL!

Maybe she is, but the situation is quite a real possibility - I was once faced with a very similar one.