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to start a list about all the fucking brilliant mothers there are in the world?

140 replies

WilfSell · 08/02/2009 22:10

Just to give the supplement journos some new angles instead of their tired old cliches?

Hmm, shall we begin?

Indira Gandhi.

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RiaParkinson · 10/02/2009 00:47

I do however still worship Babs Hepworth and would love to live in her studio!

Frasersmum123 · 10/02/2009 09:42

Jane Tomlinson

LucyEllensmummy · 10/02/2009 09:48

OnlyJoking - you know, OJ, from on here! She is the mother of the century that woman!

HeadFairy · 10/02/2009 09:50

My mum

Seriously though, she's come from a shitty background with feckless alcoholic father who treated his kids like dirt, a mother who always put her husband before her kids, she dumped them all over the world (my mum was sent at the age of 10 to live in a different country, where she didn't speak the language, with relatives she'd never met) she was sexually abused, she lost a baby at 5 months, suffered terrible PND, became addicted to the tranqs the docs prescribed to overcome the PND (no prozac in those days) and she's a brilliant mother, self educated, intelligent, supportive, loving and a very successful businesswoman and self made millionaire to boot.

AitchTwoOh · 10/02/2009 09:57

BH had trips and put them in a HOME?

come on, surely this is stretching the 'brilliant' in areas other than motherhood thing a bit.

by the way, i think alison lapper is Not A Good Artist. she does, however, appear to be an exceptionally good mother (of all of them on that freaky show).

AitchTwoOh · 10/02/2009 10:00

"The practical problems were formidable. But Hepworth had never rejected the maternal. On the contrary, the theme of maternity is central to the sculpture of this period. She was fascinated by natural gestation forms: the nut in the shell, the child in the womb. Intellectually, she found virtues in a balance of creative work and domesticity: "A woman artist," she argued, "is not deprived by cooking and having children, nor by nursing children with measles (even in triplicate) - one is in fact nourished by this rich life, provided one always does some work each day; even a single half hour, so that the images grow in one's mind." She came to see that the female physical experiences extended the range of the artistic perceptions. When she watched a woman carrying a child in her arms, she would feel the experience as if it were her own.

Certainly, Hepworth was able to draw on the resources of her time and place. The triplets were farmed out to a Hampstead nursery-training college; they were later given scholarships at the progressive boarding school, Dartington Hall. But what remains admirable is the tenacity with which she developed her own work, expunging naturalism, evolving the series of strictly abstract white marble circles, segments, slabs that became a symbol of 1930s Hampstead. For many leftwing artists, abstraction had become an article of faith, a bastion of freedom in the face of European fascist censorship. "

well, it was a different time i suppose. at surprise triplets!

FlorenceAndtheWashingMachine · 10/02/2009 10:04

JK Rowling
Susan Sarandon
The vast majority of the women I know

RiaParkinson · 10/02/2009 16:02

yes aitch

I have seen interviews with them as adults - seem remarkably grounded but then maybe the 'home' was good

She kept the singleton at home with her - even more

cheshirekitty · 10/02/2009 16:14

Mother Theresa of Calcutta. A mother to thousands. An inspiration to us all.

AitchTwoOh · 10/02/2009 16:30

ria. i wonder if she resented their attempts to derail her career?

RiaParkinson · 10/02/2009 21:08

my impression of her is rather self absorbed in a sort of 'i cant help it i am a mad artist type way'

loved men and fags too much!

RiaParkinson · 10/02/2009 23:51

Mia farrow was a joke btw!

Qally · 11/02/2009 00:39

Awww, I loved BH as well. Isn't it odd that the general gloss given is that she moved to Cornwall during the war for the sake of her children? I appreciate triplets must be hellish, but... but. 'Twas a different age, but still.

My grandmother was sent to England from what's now Pakistan at THREE, and spent most of her holidays in holiday homes until old enough to leave school.

I think the saddest thing I ever heard was my great aunt telling me how she comforted Granny on the boat over - "poor little thing, she was really too young." My great aunt was then six.

RiaParkinson · 11/02/2009 00:50

gosh Qually

I have a friend who was sent to the uk as an infant from jamaica

all her siblings stayed in jamaica

My friends mum never came to england

Qally · 11/02/2009 01:02

Oh God, that's worse. How awful - and it's not as if it's the norm, now, as it was in the 30s.

My ggp really did mean it for the best - they came over every year, and Mum says they clearly loved their children, and had their grandchildren to stay a lot when they moved back to England. That was just what you did then, to avoid tropical disease in your kids - it wasn't a BH type decision at all. But still.

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