I just feel my family treat me like sh*t .My family my parents and my 2 brothers all live in the same tiny village and I feel they snub me at every opportunity.
My mum never puts me before my SILs and I get very upset about this.
If there is anyone better to talk to my SIL totally ignores me and if I speak to her stonewalls me.Yet when it suits her can be as nice as pie.
Every week my parents pick this cousin up from playschool and look after her in the afternoon
(my SIL doesn't work and they never offer to do this for my DD).More often than not they bring her round to my house to play with my DD and to be fair they get on really really well together
In the xmas holidays my DD had her b'day party.She could only invite 10 people and bearing in mind we have 4 children then we had to be very selective but we invited her cousin ( who SIL asked if we could take and bring back and didn't bring either a present or a card).My brother and his wife mentioned they would be having a birthday party this year for their DD.
My mum asked me last week if my DD had been invited.She hasn't I told my mum that I felt pretty hurt about it as DD has kept asking when her cousins party is , and I felt I have done a lot to look after my neice.
Yesterday my mum mentioned she was going to be looking after my neice so that my SIL can cook for the party which is to be held at their house and they are inviting 10 children !!
Another time when I was ill I asked if it was possible to look after my DD for a couple of hours.She said no because she was going to the dentist.My SIL later asked if she could have her DD and they said yes and took her to the dentist with them.My Mum said she didn't feel she could say no.
Am I unreasonable to think my mum is disloyal and once just once could put my feelings before not offending my SIL ?