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To ask people to consider that i might have broken down before shouting/swearing/spitting at me?

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LovelyDear · 31/01/2009 23:25

Saturday morning in Richmond Park is men's cycling club rush hour. The road is narrow, so you can't stop without blocking all the traffic. People do, to photograph the deer, and they get pulled up sharpish.

Today i was driving though the park when my car just...stopped. something to do with the gear box. i couldn't accelerate, i just had to pull over. I put the hazards on, checked the boot of the hire car for a warning triangle (none found), phoned the RAC, and then it was freezing so i got back in the car and waited. 90% of the cyclists who went past shouted, spat or glared at me. 50% of the drivers had a go. Just one man and one woman came up to ask if i'd broken down, and to see if they could help.

I'm so saddened - i always thought most people were good. Not in the park on a Saturday morning, it seems. GGGGGRRRRRRRR. i was VERY ANGRY. so angry that at one point i heard myself randomly yell BRAKE DOWN at a herd of bikemen, like some batty anti-grammaticist, which i'm plainly not. And eventually, i nearly cried. Fortunately the RAC man then arrived like a knight in orange flashing armour and confirmed that it was properly broken. He towed me & my son to Acton which was hilarious.

The icing on the cake of my bad day is that, bless him, he drove over my handbag as i was transferring everything to another car. And broke 3 cds and my sunglasses and squished a bottle of mascara over everything else.

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luckylady74 · 31/01/2009 23:27

You had a child in the car with you and they were doing that?

LovelyDear · 31/01/2009 23:32

Ah no. I had to get the RAC tow to stop for him outside football on the way past! A very tricky piece of communication involving banging on the car door and thumbs up/down/every which way. though i have to say i don't think his presence would have changed a thing. they were like cold-blooded vipers of thoughtless anger....

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CandleQueen · 31/01/2009 23:33

I'm sorry you had a bad day. Exploding mascara is a bitch, isn't it?!
I had a blown tyre in the pouring rain, 4 months PG. I went to the nearby houses to ask to use thed phone to call DH and they refused!
In the end I had to jack the car up myself before I has rescued by a gallant knight in shining armour - well, a postman on his bicycle!
Lots of people just don't care and it make me sad. I hope I am the kind of person who would stop and help. Pay it forward, and all that..

Rachmumoftwo · 31/01/2009 23:46

I broke down recently and has abuse shouted at me by some bloke for being in his way. I cried. Some people are just bastards.

Clement · 31/01/2009 23:53

They are. Sorry for you.

TheYearOfTheCat · 01/02/2009 00:06

Bastards. If there is any justice in this world, the cyclist will get ingrown hairs non their legs.

QS · 01/02/2009 00:11

Sorry to hear this, that sounds awful.

A friend of mine was stuck in traffick down wandsworth roundabout, when she accidentally bumped into the car infront. 3 scary looking "heavies" instantly came out and marched over to her looking all puffed up and furious. They saw her 2 year old in the back, and one of them bent down to her and said:

"Mam, I just wanted to tell you to be careful in traffic, especially with a babe in the back", he then saluted her and they all went back to the car infront....

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