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To buy baby clothes from Ebay?

468 replies

memoo · 27/01/2009 19:37

Long story short, I'm pregnant with my 3rd, baby isn't due til sept but we are absolutly broke, struggling to pay the rent let alone buy new baby things.

So I decided to start buying a few little things each week from ebay. I've bid on some babygrows and a pramsuit, both used but look lovely and clean.

I was casually telling a work colleague about it today and she turn her nose up when I told her I was getting stuff from ebay. She said she "would never put her baby in second hand clothes" and "you don't know where they've come from" she went on to go on about how baby clothes aren't really expensive anyway etc etc

Maybe I'm being over sensitive but she made me feel really bad, as though I was getting second best for my baby but the way I look at it is that the baby won't know or care and newborns are only in stuff for 5 minutes so even second hand stuff will have lots of wear left in them.

Like I said, maybe I am being over sensitive (pregnancy hormones are raging) but she has made me feel like I'm not doing the best for my baby.

Is it really so bad to get second hand clothes for a new baby?

OP posts:
Surfermum · 27/01/2009 21:49

What "type of mother" buys second hand for newborns then daftpunk?

leya · 27/01/2009 21:50

I dont think I will comment again daftpunk, I think the last few post's speak for themselves!!

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 21:51

seeker;

they were made in sweatshops before they ever got onto ebay fgs.

treacletart · 27/01/2009 21:52

Blimey Daftpunk I'm genuinely shocked by your views. Are you the kind of person that won't travel on buses because someone might have sneezed in it that day and wipes restaurant chairs with antibacterial wipes?

DorisIsAPinkDragon · 27/01/2009 21:52

ilovetochat i buy myself ebay stuff too, again labels I otherwise wouldn't be able to afford- joules and boden I don't think that's bad either

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 21:54

well, as you've asked... no, i don't travel on buses.

DorisIsAPinkDragon · 27/01/2009 21:55

but daftpunk surely buying more new stuff merely increases demand making the problem of sweatshops worse not better.

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 21:56

yes, but if we all bought 2nd hand they would earn any money at all would they?

weblette · 27/01/2009 21:56

Please daftpunk, what do you do with your 'old' newborn clothes?

georgimama · 27/01/2009 21:56

Do you wipe down restaurant highchairs with Dettol wipes though Daftpunk?

I'm so proud of my 35 year old terries. Aren't there any hippies on this thread to congratulate me?

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 21:57

i'm keeping them employed by buying new...so i'm actually doing them a favour.

Anglepoise · 27/01/2009 21:59

pebblecat I think building up a robust immune system is avoiding unnecessary risk

georgimama I put my newborn in a 100+ year old crib!

DorisIsAPinkDragon · 27/01/2009 22:00

OMG think that has to be the mostdepressing thing I've heard on a thread for a while daft punk!!!!!

I'm not sure where exactly to start....

leya · 27/01/2009 22:01

I was'nt going to comment again, but daftpunks ignorant attitude is making me so Do you work daftpunk? What does your partner do? I'm just curious as to why you have this 'I don't care attitude'.

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 22:01

what?

DorisIsAPinkDragon · 27/01/2009 22:05

Please tell me you're winding me up....

That you feel that keeping children working in sweatshops so your dc's can have "new" clothes, at a cheap price is really very unpleasant....

Surely you can see the isses in the above statement, please tell me you can...

Georgiemama- the reuseables I had from my sister weren't 35 years old but my mum still uses ours, to wash windows, clean floors and wallpaper (better than a brush to smooth out bubbles apparently )

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 22:05

what are you on about?...if we all stopped buying new clothes the world would fall to it's knees...it's half way there already....do you really think buying everything from ebay is helping?..if these factories had to shut down what would happen then?...come on, tell me!

pispirispis · 27/01/2009 22:05

Ebay was fab for buying clothes for my lo! I know many have said it before, but OP it's a great idea to buy second-hand clothes for your baby! Especially when they're tiny because so many things have only been worn a few times or not at all!

cali · 27/01/2009 22:06

so by purchasing clothes have probably been made through the exploitation of children in developing countries, you think you are doing them a favour daftpunk?

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 22:07

i'd love to know where you lot buy your clothes...

weblette · 27/01/2009 22:07

Will you please answer my question....

cali · 27/01/2009 22:08

ebay

daftpunk · 27/01/2009 22:09

what do i do with my "old" clothes...i give them to charity shops.

cali · 27/01/2009 22:10

echoing weblette, would like to see your response to my point about child labour in developing countries.

Cheap clothes are only cheap for one reason!

Exploitation!

I would much rather dress my children in 2nd hand clothes, than have them wear clothes made by someone not much older than themselves.

leya · 27/01/2009 22:11

Can you answer my question daftpunk?