To let my 18 month old mush up her cake and cream together with her hands?

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She was having a thouroughly good time.

Dh has just come in and noticed the state of her tray

Apparently no good mother would behave like this. I am not teaching my daughter right from wrong. I am bringing her up to be a lout.

Thakn fuck this man is leaving my life very shortly.

it's good for her.
sensory stimulation and all that.
you wouldn't let her do it with poo, so you are teaching her right from wrong. (although this is entirely your call )
He sounds fun

what a cunt.

yanbu.

wht a knob

YANBU. We do stuff like this all the time.

Although lovelysongbirdie was a bit harsh to say the least!

Good for you! I love watching DD get stuck in and absolutely covered in food. I think I've read your other thread about him, he really is an idiot isn't he?

No it is not, songbirdie is right. He didn't just walk through the door and say "why did you let her do that?" He walked in had a go at me for not having his plate on the table for him walking through and then told me "what the fuck is that? Why have you done that? Do you want your child to be a lout?"

After challenging him about his aggressive behavior he started going about I slept in the other day and how my eldest tells him I stay in bed all day long. And how I am a bad mother.

He cannot admit that he was at fault. He has to try and turn the situation back onto me.

And to think I was actually feeling sorry for this pathetic excuse of man earlier and reconsidering leaving him

He is out the second the builder says his house is fit to live and it wont be a second too soon.

YANBU. Food is fun. leave her enjoy it. who can eat cake & cream without getting in a mess anyway.

Ignore him. he's a twunt. good riddance.

Would have buried his face in the tray. Why do some people expect little ones to behave like 60 year olds taking afternoon tea?