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to report this mother and grandmother to the Mumsnet police?

61 replies

MadameOvary · 18/01/2009 15:08

DP and I were in car at traffic lights. Two women (looked like mother and daughter) and a pushchair with a toddler, maybe two.
Older woman stopped, got a -yes- Fruitshoot out of the buggy bag.
I noted this as only a Mumsnetter could
But then
She proceeded to get a baby bottle out of the bag, complete with teat, pour the Fruitshit into it and give it to the bairn.
Before I could stop myself I bawled 'No! Don't give the poor kid that sugary shite'
Thankfully the car windows were closed.
Otherwise, this being Leith, I would have got a 'paggering'
DP looked at me askance and told me I was over-reacting.
Well, am I?

OP posts:
MadameOvary · 18/01/2009 17:50

I have lived at the fit o' the Walk too, and pilrig street for 5 years, so feel entitled to comment

OP posts:
higgle · 18/01/2009 17:50

Yes it is bad, no it is not bad enough to get this worked up about

LyraSilvertongue · 18/01/2009 17:56

I wouldn't say the op was worked up, higgle.

littleboyblue · 18/01/2009 18:03

Yes

SummerC · 18/01/2009 18:04

pmsl!

You could always get some subtle MN cards printed:

"Need parenting advice? Pop on to MN, but leave the fruitshit at the door."

MadameOvary · 18/01/2009 18:08

Yes, a little sticker with a Fruitshit in a red circle with a line through it.

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SummerC · 18/01/2009 18:08

I shall pop to the printers tomorrow MadameOvary!

ScottishMummy · 18/01/2009 18:18

you must have hit loon jackpot shouting in your car.was your dh black affronted? fruit shoot surely an oxymoron

paggering is that the same as a sherricking

blueshoes · 18/01/2009 18:33

millyR, thanks for that. If the only admonition is that 'there is no need', I don't see any harm really. My 2 year old can drink out of baby bottle (I don't think he does that now though), fruit shoot bottle, beaker, sippy cup, straw but mostly from an open cup.

I mostly do not pay any attention to HVs who give parenting advice.

MillyR · 18/01/2009 18:37

I can't remember what the purpose is of the sip cup/open cup; it may be about it being good for your child's development to learn to sip, and the teat thing is to do with teeth and exposure to sugar,as children suck for comfort and not just for thirst, so could prolong sugar exposure, but I think a quick google would give a variety of (no doubt conflicting) dentist opinions.

PottyCock · 18/01/2009 18:40

I used to live at the foot of the walk too

BitOfFun · 18/01/2009 18:46

I was on Kirk Street myself

slayerette · 18/01/2009 18:50

"Fruit juice from a bottle bathes your child?s teeth in sugar and may contribute to tooth decay."

I googled as MillyR said and couldn't find any conflicting opinions - basically, the above is the case, so no juice in bottles!

PottyCock · 18/01/2009 18:50

BOF - me too!!

PottyCock · 18/01/2009 18:51

For almost ten years actually

BitOfFun · 18/01/2009 19:04

Nooo, really? 26, first floor, until 2001- I wonder if we knew each other?

PottyCock · 18/01/2009 19:14

I was at 14, top floor from 1995 - 2004ish - I used to work at the Central.

littlebrownmouse · 18/01/2009 19:15

At the traffic lights!! Am shocked, was the buggy brake on? Could the poor the malnourished mite's buggy have rolled under a car? Could he have got out and run 'pell-mell' across the road necessitating another mn Bollocking? Was it a nuk bottle that mimmicks lady teats or a nasty cheap one with a picture of a teddy on the side? Was the mother a smoker? Did he have a DVD player in the buggy? If he'd made a run for it across the busy road would she have smacked him? I think we, the MN police need to track down this poor little one, he is almost certainly in for a life of CITV, late nights, trouble at school, crime, drug adiction and prison. We must rescue him now before its too late and introduce him to the world of homous, spring water, raw carrot and fresh fruit smoothies. Arise the women of MN to change a life for the better!

differentID · 18/01/2009 19:17

Fruit shoot sports cap bottles aren't suitable for children under 3 years- read the label.

BitOfFun · 18/01/2009 19:23

A friend of mine moved in there about then with her son and twin boys- it would be funny if it was the same flat. We might even recognize each others kids! Do you remember the urchins out in all weathers with no coat? (not mine!) they used to knock at my door to get fed...it was like something out of the nineteen-thirties!

StewieGriffinsMom · 18/01/2009 19:24

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TimorousWeeBeastie · 18/01/2009 19:28

Once saw a woman give a 3 year old irn Bru in a babies bottle. On a train from Glasgow to Ayr.

Turniphead1 · 18/01/2009 19:32

Isn't Irn Bru one of the Scttish 5 a day? The other four being

  • tablet
  • Deep fried Mars Bar
  • Cowans chews
  • Edinburgh rock

Fruit Shoots are probably for the middle class "puffs" into all the organic shite...

TimorousWeeBeastie · 18/01/2009 19:34

tablet .... drool

ScottishMummy · 18/01/2009 19:35

yum weegie 5 a day
a fag
morton roll
square sausage
fried tattie scone wi broon sauce

ah'm reminiscing noo being a wean

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