yesterday my ds had to go to hospital to have 3 teeth out under general anasthetic. He needs to have a brace fitted and threw up in the dentists when she took the first tooth out, hence the hospital visit and general.
anyway, I was feeling pretty stressed about it, particularly as it wasnt really medically necessary and I was worried about him having a bad reaction to anasthetic.
dh stayed at home with other 2 ds's and I went on my own with ds1. had to turn phone off obviously, but when they took ds into theatre I went outside to ring dh. No answer, even though he said he wasnt going anywhere, so I rang his mobile, no answer there either, rang home again, still no answer.
I only wanted to speak to him as it was a bit traumatic seeing your baby (hes 12 but you know what I mean!) being put to sleep and wheeled off with a mask on his face.
went back into the ward as I didnt want to miss him coming back and had to switch off phone again.
when he came back and all was well, I went outside again to ring his dad. tried home 3 times and mobile 2, still no answer.
he finally replied as we were walking across the car park to come home. He had been at home all the time but was too busy with the kids to answer the phone! wtf!!! had left a voicemail message but was annoyed with me cos I had turned my phone off. I was in hospital ffs!!
Am just really annoyed at the lack of support, is it too much to ask for him to be on the other end of the phone for 2 mins. He has gone off to work this morning in a strop with me! dickhead!!!