Basically I've made arrangements a few times over the last year with a friend of mine, to meet up with our dc's, they're all similar ages. Sometimes it's been my suggestion and sometimes her's. However, the last few times, including last week when the meet-up was supposed to be at my house, she hasn't been in or turned up at mine, + I couldn't get hold of her.
I mentioned this to a mutual friend. She said this other friend has actually said to her that if she's due round at mine and something comes up/she can't make it, I'm one person she doesn't feel she needs to let know because "as a non-driver, I'm surely going to be at home anyway so her not showing up wouldn't stop me doing anything else!" They were her words!
Well, last week for example I was taking my son to a playcentre party, had shopping to do in town + was meeting a colleague for coffee afterwards with both of our children. I had to cut all of this short, rush home to tidy up because I had this friend + her dc's coming, only for there to be no sign of her and she wasn't answering her mobile or home phone. My dd in particular was upset as she was looking forward to seeing her friend and I ended up wasting most of a day.
I'm fuming now after being told what she says about me, AIBU to phone + have it out with her? I hate confrontations but this may have to be done, it's not the first time it's happened as I said before!