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to think kit's a bit rude/ dismissive to start a thread in chat and have a reply asking...

53 replies

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 11:31

'why do you care'?

If none of us cared about anything the threads would be empty.

Do I need a reason?

I don't especially 'care' that much but sometimes just want erm, well - a chat.

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Ronaldinhio · 22/12/2008 15:03

mucho hurt abound it seems

merry christmas m'lady bean

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 15:05

And a jolly one to you too Ronadinhio

Is it too early for a mulled wine?

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solidgoldprawnring · 22/12/2008 15:10

Everyone needs a vat of evening primrose oil sherry and a valium today I reckon.

Ronaldinhio · 22/12/2008 15:21

lovely

thanks

LiffeySaysNollaigShona · 22/12/2008 15:24

Paolo's girl, that's so true! imagine being with real people and saying rudely "Yawn yawn I HAD this conversation in 2006 ffs"

LiffeySaysNollaigShona · 22/12/2008 15:24

Ronaldinhio, we should crush up some valium and put it in the mulled wine I think. it's definitely medicinal!

Ronaldinhio · 22/12/2008 15:26

bloody hell must try to decorate house......

Ronaldinhio · 22/12/2008 15:27

does red berries and pussy willow count as an extreme extravagance?
they have them up the road from us and they are beeeeuuuutifooolll

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 15:29

Yes Ronaldinhio. Finish the mulled wine cocktail and get going!

I too need to get going... to the post office but am waiting for a tardy ebayer to pay me... hence longer than I really should on MN!

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chequersandroastedchestnuts · 22/12/2008 15:39

Oh I can't be bothered to search for the thread, who exactly is it that you're having a go at for doing this?

chequersandroastedchestnuts · 22/12/2008 15:42

Oh ok, I searched. I think she's just having a bad day given her input on some other threads. Bit mean to start this thread I think.

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 15:42

Oh I only just saw this. Cheers love. I did actually add my 2p to your thread, so who cares was a genuine question.

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 15:43

I'M NOT HAVING A GO AT ANYONE!

I asked if I was BU to feel upset. The poster/thread in question is completely irrelevant. I am sure they meant no offence. It was a subjective feeling on my part and I tried to explain how I felt in the op.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 15:43

It's THEDEVILWEARSPRIMARK and I'm having a fabulous day thankyou.

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 15:44

Primark, please see above. I had a silly sensitive wobble this morning that's all. No offence meant.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 15:47

hmm, but now others are searching for posts by me and deducing 'tdwp is a bitch'. Not cool.

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 15:48

Oh dear, how sad some people are. Shall I make an announcement to the effect that TDWP is not a bitch?!

I do wonder why I bother sometimes.

Maybe I should add a disclaimer to all my posts.

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chequersandroastedchestnuts · 22/12/2008 15:51

Who deduced that you were a bitch TDWP? I thought you must be having a bad day given your rather abrupt posts today. Nobody called you a bitch, is that how you think you're viewed on here? If so, that's down to you and nobody else.

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 15:55

If the op just wanted a chat then why not start a chat, and it's not as though my comment 'killed ' her thread.

To post a thread about a thread is shit really, especially as I did nothing to upset here.

But now some are here wondering who what why and when and searching my threads and telling me what kind of day I've had.

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 15:58

Oh and are all my posts abrupt today? I very much doubt it.

chequersandroastedchestnuts · 22/12/2008 15:58

Happy Christmas TDWP

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 15:59

I did start a chat Primark. I felt a bit upset by the 'why do you care' comment - but that was MY problem and not that big a deal - but as I said I was feeling more sensitive than usual this morning.

Really, the last thing I want to do is upset another poster.

You have done nothing wrong and if it's not the done thing to start a thread asking AIBU to feel upset about something on another thread then I apologise unreservedly.

Now please everyone STOP!

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 16:02

Okay. Apologies.

Sometimes I'm a cow too. And yes admittedly more fired up today than normal (but don't want to be)

But no more threads about threads I tell ye!

MrsSeanBean · 22/12/2008 16:03

Lesson learned Primark

And if anyone accuses you of being a bitch send 'em my way.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 22/12/2008 16:20
Grin