Before i start I can totally understand why she's hacked off with me but I just think she's taken it a bit too far.
Had visit planned in March for Oct (we live in manc she lives in south west) to go to see her. I cancelled it a month before for 3 reasons, a v close mate had her 30th that weekend, it was close to a hand in date for some Msc work and I had a miscarriage in sept and couldn't face the palaver of it TBH on top of everything else.
She then text with an alternative date in Nov to which my immediate thought was that it was too close to xmas and another MSc deadline. I'll hole my hands up and admit i frogot to text back to say we couldn't make it for a few days.
Since then I've tried calling her numerous times and have facbooked her apologising and explaing about the mc (she's had one too so thought she would be sympathetic) and promised not to be so crap and unreliable in future.
But no return call, message, nothing she's blanking me whuch is pretty haesh imo.
We've been mates 11 years so I'm a bit hurt TBH, AIBU or do I deserve it?