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to get DH to chop up the broken sofa the neighbour gave us??

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glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 13:47

about 6 weeks ago the new neighbour kindly gave us a 3 seater leather sofa... we went to look at it in their house a few days before we collected it, and as it looked great then gave our other sofa away... admittedly our old sofa was old, but it was still in a good useable condition.

Anyway, our old sofa was taken and later that day DH brought the 'new' sofa home... only for us to find it was all ripped open underneath and the wood had been broken in all sorts of ways!! And the leather had been very badly scuffed in the few days since we'd been to look at it. Anyway we had no sofa, so DH patched up the inside, adding wood in etc and spent about 4 hrs getting it fixed enough to be used...

2 weeks ago my great aunt offered us a pair of almost new 2 seater sofa's for free, and we accepted as we knew the other one wouldn't last us!! We put the sofa off our neighbours on freecycle to see if anyone needed a sofa for 6mths worth of use or so, listing ALL the faults and how DH had fixed it for temporary use... a guy came and looked at it and said he'd be happy to take it as he had nothing else.

We got our sofa's from my aunt this monday, the man from freecycle was supposed to collect anytime between monday and today, heard nothing all week and had emailed him on saturday and monday, and he had our home number to be able to phone us... emailed again this morning and he's just replied saying he's not wanting it now as he was given another- yeah thanks for letting me know.

That man was the only person who asked for it on freecycle so i doubt it's worth offering it on there again... and i want it out of the house before xmas, its currently on its side in my dining room.... I want DH to cut it up and take it to the tip on monday... he thinks the neighbours will be offended...

AIBU in thinking that they obviously knew it was broken so wont be bothered... them giving it to us was most likely their way of saving hacking it up themselves???

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LadyOfWaffle · 18/12/2008 13:49

Offer it back first?

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 13:52

i thoguht of that, but they had one other sofa in the house, and i saw them get a brand new sofa delivered last week, will i not just look stupid offering them back their old knackered sofa that they didn't want??

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AMIStletoekiss · 18/12/2008 13:53

Personally, I'd offer it back to them just to save any bad feeling, but they're probably just glad to be rid of it themselves!

moondog · 18/12/2008 13:54

Good God, he wants to keep a heap of shit to avoid offending them??
Tell him to toughen up!
Attack the fecker with an axe.

AMIStletoekiss · 18/12/2008 13:54

X-posts there - maybe just pop round and say you're getting rid and just wanted to check they didn't want it to give on to someone else?

Yurtgirl · 18/12/2008 13:55

If they didnt want it then, they dont want it now - hence they bought a new one

Why are you worrying? Just get rid of it

If they ever ask/find out tell them it didnt fit or something

Yurtgirl · 18/12/2008 13:56

Why would they want to give it to someone else - they have already dumped it on you - complete with wrecked and scuffed bits

Just get rid of it

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 13:57

yeah might do that AMIS

MOONDOG- he doesn't want to keep it... just keep it till we can pass it on to someone else... i dotn know really... he'll have to chop it up in the driveway so will be out there for an hour or so chopping their old sofa up i think thats what he feels bad about...

i've considered doing it myself and leaving it in pieces in front of the house till monday, but at 5mths pg i'm in no state to be shifting a 3seater sofa outside and then chop it up too!!

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crazyloon1 · 18/12/2008 14:01

Can you wait and see if they go away over the hols - that way you can indulge in festive destruction and bonfires and they won't know anything about it.

bloody cheek to give you something so shit itfp though

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 14:04

well they'd invited us to their 'housewarming' on sunday, luckily its DS's birthday so we can't make it... so i'm gathering they wont be going away, and monday is the only day off that DH has before Xmas day so if we dont do it on monday we'll not get rid before Xmas!!

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CaptainKarvol · 18/12/2008 14:06

I'd also wait till they are away...

Chopping it up could be very theraputic - we did same with a (trashed) sofa my aunt was 'kind' enough to let us have. After spending £100 on van hire to collect the dirty, knackered thing (billed as 'lovely' and 'perfect for you') DH very much enjoyed chopping it into small pieces.

CaptainKarvol · 18/12/2008 14:07

Damn, cross posts

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 14:10

CK- i'm glad we've not spent any money on the blimin thing!! just DH with some wood we already had and a few hours work...

it only cost us £35 to get a man and a van to move both our new sofa's for us, and they are worth 10x that!! i'm so so pleased with our new ones, and they really do look new and i'm just getting more and more depressed seeing the old knackered one everytime i have to enter the dining room!!!

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Ponders · 18/12/2008 14:23

Before chopping you could try it once on a neighbouring freecycle site (assuming your DH's repairs have made it usable & it wouldn't fall apart in being moved?)

If no joy there then chop away

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 14:35

well i've just reported him as a no-show to my local freecycle and just re-offered it with it needing to be collected before monday or its going to the tip.

DH's repairs are good for it to last at least another 6mths or so with normal use... anything like jumping on it would probably break it though!! but we had myself and DH sat on it with both our DC's boucing ou our knee's!! and its all still in one piece!!

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glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 18/12/2008 18:22

wuhoo- re-offering paid off- someone has asked for it and will be collecting it within the next hour!!! i can start getting my dining room all perfectly organised for xmas!!! and the kids can stop eating tea on the living room floor!!

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Ponders · 18/12/2008 20:51

Did they come? Has it gone???

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 19/12/2008 08:57

UPDATE: the sofa has now gone!!!!!! i have my dining room back

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Ponders · 19/12/2008 13:35

Hooray!

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