DS (22 months) has been ill and not sleeping well the last few days, and it has been 90% me going up and down the stairs to sort him out. I ended up wasting most of my evening last night (and also Sunday, Monday and Tuesday night) as the only way he will settle for longer is if I cuddle him on our bed (the coughing and wheezing is waking him up every hour or less otherwise) and then I end up asleep a lot of the times. DP says he will come up and get me if I drop asleep but often he will leave me for ages while he finishes watching a film (for example). I have loads to do after he's gone to bed this time of year.
Anyway, last night I went up to put him to bed for around 8:30, back upstairs at half 9 'till just before 11pm, then half an hour or so later he woke again. SO I went upstairs and ended up having a broken night's sleep lying alongside him in full clothing while he occasionally woke up, accidentally bopped me in the nose a few times etc. I woke up about 2 hours ago (3am) freezing to see DS crawling over to bedside table and hear him knock my glasses to the floor ("Uh-oh!"). I can't see very much at all without them (very poor eyesight) so when DP finally came up to bed just before 5am (he'd fallen asleep on the sofa) I asked him to help me look for them. He point blank refused and said he was coming to bed, complaining that I was selfish to ask for this. I said it was important for me to have my glasses to see and also know where they are - as they are my only pair! He grumbled and groaned and said "Find them yourself because I'm going to bed!". I them asked again and added that I can't actually SEE my glasses because of my shortsightedness, and I worried that someone would step/lie on them. Also I needed to go downstairs and sort things before he was due to be up (he generally won't get up until the last minute - giving himself just enough time to get himself ready for work but not a lot else). He refused again, and then eventually had a look, complaining bitterly throughout. He said he could see my glasses under the bed. I asked him to reach them for me as I couldn't see them - he said "Get them yourself it's 5 in the morning!" . Eventually he did get them but he was very unpleasant about it and said that I could "go now" (implying that I should now go downstairs out of the way so he could sleep).
So, am I being unreasonable to be sitting here fuming about this? He has been able to stay downstairs and basically watch TV all night while I ran up and down like a yo-yo, but he couldn't even be arsed to look for my glasses!!! Which I need to see much beyond about 4 inches ahead of me!!! I realise he's at work tomorrow (whereas I'll be stopping off and looking after poorly ds), but really it is asking too much to help me find them so that I can go downstairs if I need to (while he sleeps), is it?