Was going to name change, but pointless as no-one here actually knows me anyway!
I sat down next to DH this evening to talk with him, he was on the laptop and quickly flicked between tabs, I thought I saw an MSN type window with a conversation in it, and knowing he doesn't use it, alarm bells rang.
I asked him to show me what it was, he could hardly refuse really, it was a personal chat window with a "woman" ( allegedly! probably a hairy 35 stone man!) on Stockings HQ .
I said I wasn't happy he was doing that and said to shut it down and don't do it again. I thought after I did the washing up in a temper that maybe it was like those TV channels were they text in comments, do ykwim? I went back in and asked him to show me again, and he comfirmed it was a private conversation through a chatroom and that he had done it before although never spoken with the same person twice.
I haven't talked to him since except to say don;t fucking talk to me! I will be sleeping downstairs tonight on sofa, I can't bear to be in the bed with him.
Am I bu to think DH is a cheating twat? Is it technically cheating anyway?