ok this is my 1st post here so please be gentle! i am just so so angry and upset its untrue. well basically it was my birthday on sat and hubby was away but had organised flowers to be sent, had left my presents etc, even arranged a cake so all was great. then the plan was my sil would come and we would go shopping.so far so good. well i had mentioned all this to my mother the day before saying we would be out and busy so not to phone and i would chat in the week. she said fine. then as we were coming out of shops had 6 missed calls from her and an angry voicemail saying oh u dont answer your phone i was so worried blah blah blah on for ages. i rang back and said there was no reception inside shops only got the messages now and i specifically told u not to ring as would be out. she was like oh i forgot and u werent replying my calls so i thought something had happened. aaaaaahhhhh. this is just why i hate ringing and phonig her it does nmy head in. then it all kicked off into i fight i was upset, she gives me so much stress all year just for one day couldnt she have given it a rest? all f ing year i wait for my bday and hubby made such an effort and the whole day ruined. aaahh am so upset. so comments a nyone?