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to think if you are unknowingly flashing your arse to the general public 4 times a day

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Fleurlechaunte · 14/12/2008 15:00

then you ought to be told.

I live on a very busy street and in recent weeks have noticed that the frosted glass in the opposite house is completely see through and I am seeing a variety of arses belonging to various members of the family numerous times during the day. I can see them sitting on the toilet, in fact I can see everything as can the general public passing by on this street, along with at least three or four sets of neighbours on either side of me.

My friend thinks it would be too embarrassing to tell them but how it could it be more embarrassing than what is happening now? I am considering an anonymous note through the door. Any opinons?

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MoccaMint · 14/12/2008 18:25

You have to tell them!!! Post them 2 letters just in case the 1st one gets lost and you assume they're doing it on purpose

lovecat · 14/12/2008 18:57

A new block of flats has been built by the side of the A12 near where I live. They have floor to ceiling glass windows in the kitchens, which are positioned at the road end. No frosted glass at all.

Thus far I have seen several hairy male arses wandering about their kitchens, their owners sweetly oblivious (I hope) to the queuing traffic beneath copping an eyeful. But only one woman in a very short t-shirt and what DH claimed was nothing else (he says no fair, why is it all men living in these flats?)

Fleurlechaunte · 14/12/2008 19:11

I am going to send a Christmas Card tommorrow with a little note in it. I will sign it from a well wisher. I would die a death of a thousand screams of shame if this was me though and wouldnt be able to look any of my neighbours in the face but I would rather know.

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2manychips · 14/12/2008 19:16

A chap opposite us told us everyone could see us in the shower-its over the bath which is right in front of the frosted window. (we tried a blind but it rusted horribly)He said he didnt mind seeing me but could see my dh..well he mimed washing his bum crack!!
Some nights I leave the light on,others I dont,depends on how confident I feel.

Twiglett · 14/12/2008 19:21

put an anonymous helpful note through their door

moondog · 14/12/2008 19:22

at him miming your dh washing his arse.
At least you came out of it well.

MummyDoIt · 14/12/2008 19:25

My sister lives opposite someone who has frosted glass in their bathroom at the front of the house. Unfortunately, it is very obvious that no-one in the house ever washes their hands after using the loo. You can see the chap standing up to use the loo, he gives a little shake, flushes and immediately leaves. His wife is as bad (though not standing up, obviously). And the worst thing? He's their postman so he's handling their mail with his unwashed, toiletty hands.

moondog · 14/12/2008 19:26

I used to hear the bl0ke next door having a wee every morning at 6:30 when we lived in a terrace.

MadamDeathstarOverBethlehem · 14/12/2008 21:09

Nudists moved into our old house. The kitchen is at the front. The neighbors said they could see heads going along the counter tops as the occupants just crouched down when they were using the kitchen to avoid giving everyone a view. That sounds inconvenient and uncomfortable to me, why didn't they just put on an apron?

TheButterflyEffect · 14/12/2008 21:44

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Ivykaty44 · 14/12/2008 23:21

I keep looking out the window, just incase I see fleur creeping up the path

TwentiethCenturyHeffa · 15/12/2008 10:17

Is frosted glass see-through when the lights are on? I need to get some blinds...

SJLTM · 15/12/2008 18:16

We had this in our old house, neighbours bathroom window in full view from our kitchen ! (no Kids) just young couple,who we called "The Psycho couple" as always doing shower scenes ! when they were in the shower together, he spent ages washing his willy, and was always dropping the soap, well I think thats why he kept bending down !

SalBySea · 15/12/2008 18:26

some people really dont mind

I house shared with a load of boys in uni. Every morning Mr AcrossTheStreet would leave for work, Hearing his car go, my housemates would congregate at the window and about 5 mins later Mrs AcrossTheStreet would open the curtains, and then wander around topless. Once she even cleaned the windows topless

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