I've been ill since the early hours of yesterday, today I am at least up and dressed but still burning up and dd2 is also ill now so I've had to take time off work, dp is at work but is also ill with the same thing although was ill before me so is hopefully on his way to being better.
If we do go I need to find a babysitter who I trust to care for dd2 when she is ill although we will be minutes away as the church is round the corner I'm worried as when dd1 was dd2's age she had a febrile convulsion so I'm very wary of dd's having temps and being left, my mum who is a nurse and I would trust is at work the other people I trust is pil BUT dd's were there most of sunday with dp and they are having them overnight on saturday so I think asking them to have her tonight if only for a couple of hours is a bit much when they both work FT too.
But dd1 will be disapointed if we don't go and we'll have to take and pick her up anyway but she is 9 and old enough to understand we aren't very well.
What should we do?