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To be annoyed by this remark??

31 replies

Antdamm · 04/12/2008 14:07

My DP's sister has just had her baby last week. I was told by DP's other sister and his step mum that his sister had said a few weeks back that she was going to give her dad (my DP's dad) his first grandchild.

Dp and I had our son three years ago - so he is the first grandchild.

She has turned around and said that her kid would be the first born in wedlock!!!!!!! Does this matter anymore?? How cheeky does that sound to you?

I was very very angry, as if DP and I not being married means that DS is not a 'proper' grandchild. I have a feeling that she is going to make a big fuss, have a christening - just for the attention, no religious beliefs etc.

Im mostly annoyed about the whole - unmarried thing - the thing is that my DP was going to propose to me, but her partner was going to do it at the same time, so my DP didnt bother.

Am I being Unreasonable??

OP posts:
LostLauren · 04/12/2008 15:27

I better get married quick then! I'm 9 weeks pregnant and raised by a relatively strict RC family! Don't want my child to be non-existent!!

Ignore this woman, she sounds crackers!

SleighGirl · 04/12/2008 15:31

that should be reregister (still haven't reregistered ours, have been married nearly 2 years!)

dsrplus8 · 04/12/2008 15:39

id be a bitch back and tell her that shes done the same as anne bolynne ,got married whilst pregers, and we all know how that turned out!!!

pinkmagic1 · 04/12/2008 15:53

She needs a good slap in my opinion!

Lotster · 04/12/2008 16:05

YANBU - what a thoughtless, spoilt person she sounds, firstly to think this and secondly to feel that she should voice it.

OrmIrian · 04/12/2008 16:12

Unless that is how your DC's grandparents feel too I would disregard her comment.

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