She is 11 and we have come to blows yet again over the state of her room.
I am not one of these people that expects a house to be spotless at all, as I think it is unobtainable when you have kids, but I do expect it to be reasonable and not look like a shit hole.
She quite often gets it into such a state that she doesn't know where to start, so on her birthday this month I sorted the whole room out, chucked out 3 black bags of junk, cleared space for new stuff etc etc.
Then for the next week I went in every day to pick washing up, open blind, make bed etc as she does non of this.
I missed one day of doing this, one day, and when I went back in the room it was back to shit hole, no floor showing, like a bomb had gone of mode.
So, I have asked her to tidy it, have been asking since Friday morning. She hasn't done it, which is no surprise, but what is anoying me is everytime I go upstairs she is watching tv, not crappy stuff but even so.
So, I gave her a final warning, start tidying up, or the fuse gets taken out of the plug. She didn't so I have taken it out.
So AIBU ??