Well half sister.
We have the same dad, and she is 30. She has 1 dd who is 8.
She was a bit of a rebel when she was younger, her and her mum have a bit of a love/hate relationship but she has always gotten on well with Dad.
She has a new boyfriend/fiancee and he is horrible and treats her and my dn like crap. He takes drugs and neither of them work. My sister gets migraines when she works but never gets them while unemployed.
Apparently he grows weed in the house, my 8 year old neice told her gran how to roll a joint and how to use some grinding machine. Someone who lives near them reported her to SS as my neice is quite thin, but then again at her age both me and my sister were very thin. So what did my sister do, beat the woman up and her partner beat up this womans partner. SS have been watching her very very closely.
He has recently been charged with beating his ex up, got a fine and community service. She is due in court this month for ABH.
I'm pregnant with DC2 and during my first pregnancy she phoned at least once a week to see how I was and for a general natter. This time round there has been no contact since she got with him. I was just 10 weeks then.
They split up recently, he left her and she was depressed so my DN stayed with her gran. During this break my sister phoned me and texted me. Also SS stopped watching her as closely as before.
Now they are back together as she begged him to come back, she won't answer my calls or he answers and says she's too busy. She only rings Dad if she wants money. Also SS have put DN back on the on risk list. Her Mum is hoping to get custody of my dn which would be great.
My sister's mum wants to completely disown her and honestly I do too. My Dad won't go that far but I have made him promise not to give her anymore money.
Also we all think she is taking drugs as she refuses to show her arms at all. If its not that he could be beating her up.
Sorry for the rant and I'm not sure what replies I'll get but I needed to get it off my chest and I don't like going on about it to DH all the time.