AIBU to be annoyed that my colleague gave my child a pringle, jam donut and a whole grape!

[macdoodle]

I know I'm not - shes 10 months FGS!
Work meeting today, my day off, needed to be there, no childcare so took DD2 with me!
Colleagues all fine and helpful but one (who has 3 DC I might add)....first gave DD2 a salted pringle and looked amazed when I cringed and said she hasnt ever had a crisp as I tried to scoop it out her mouth, she then gave her a bit of sugar coated jam donut and laughed and said dont say thast her first donut and I looked on in shock, but when she tied to pop a whole grape in her mouth I had to say NO she might choke so she broke it in half and popped a large half in her mouth which she then proceeded to almost choke on
At this stage I just took her off her
Now I am far from precious about what she eats she is my NSB after all but come on AIBU!!!!!!
Well she has just had home made stew and a breast feed so hopefully not toooo damaged

I think they should have checked before giving your lo ANY food. PLus - you said you are all GP's?? Shouldn't she know better re whole grapes?! If i were you i'd take a 'snack pack' in next time - and say she can have anything from that to whoever is holding her.

SORRY! I didn't mean to imply that she was a PFB I was just saying that it annoys me when a lot of MNettrs assume that it is a PFB whenever anyone starts a thread like this.
I agree that this isn't relevant either way tho.

We were a room of GP's at least if she had choked or had a anaphylactic reaction there would have been plenty of help on hand
I DID take a snack pack but obviously feeling her crap was more fun

feeding NOT feeling obviously

I would have been pissed off about the grape - but then I have this whole choking-phobia thing going.

I don't let anybody feed my kids anything without checking with me first - but that is because of food allergies. Did you tell your colleagues not to feed her?

Sorry I think YABU, i would have probably made a joke out of it,

Well no TBH I didnt and I had already given her the crust off my sandwich so maybe she thought it would be ok....really I am not so much annoyed about what she gave her as to the fact that she just gave it without even checking or asking ...and continued to give when I had already expressed some shock after the pringle
But ok I can accept a IABU off now to do some tidying up

I assume she was sitting with your baby on her lap who was lunging for her food so she gave her some

Fishing a pringle out of her mouth is quite funny though

That IS a tad PFB

I shudder to think what my colleagues would think was appropriate food for a 10 month old...

I suspect your colleague was only trying to help (and a donut is pretty good entertainment!).

If it happened at a creche I'd be furious but you can't really expect your workmates to be tuned into the dietary requirements of a baby.

But having said that, they should've checked with you first and actually I'd be pretty annoyed about it myself!

PFB is not a description of the child btw, it is a description of the syndrome

At least they didn't take her round the back and share their fags

YANBU, my 13 month old doesn't even have pringles or full grapes, mind you, she's only got 2 teeth

Well I don't think you were BU at all.

People do forget though - like the lovely woman who gave DD peanuts the other week

Well I am now PMSL so ok you lot have calmed me down and shown me the error of my ways
I guess the scooping the pringle out of her mouth was pretty funny, I let her eat the donut FWIW .....my colleague is probably telling her DH what a loon I am
And again.........she is not a PFB

What's a PFB?

Scrap that, I've just looked it up