To want someone else to wash up ??

[IllegallyBrunette]

Well ??

No.

If you cook, then someone else should wash up. That's always been the rule in my house!

we did the washing up n our family home from the time we were about 9.

so YANBU.

if you have a 9-year-old, assign them a night for washing up.

they don't want to do it, they get priviledges revoked or no pocket money.

there's no 'i' in team.

Dd1 is old enough to wash up most things, but we had extra cheesy tuna pasta bake and so the dish it was cooked in always takes a bit of scrubbing.

Plus we have no rubber gloves, so looks like it is my turn again.

Oh well.

It is the only thing that I miss about xp tbh. When I cooked he washed up, and when he cooked he also washed up LOL.