Or was I? Bit of a birthday party rant and to see if anyone would have done anything differently!

[Aimsmum]

Message withdrawn

OP - you ANBU at all - patience of a saint, I would say. Poor H.

You are not being unreasonable I really feel for the dd, she was probably mortified at her motherd behaviour.

Message withdrawn

What was in pick and mix that it cost £9?!

If it was £40 I might have given it a second thought, but £4...nah a rudeness tax I say!

YANBU! Don't feel bad!

i aM a v late person and i would have been v embarassed
i certainly wouldnt have had the brass neck to make you pay for my own pick and mix and then turn up late again????

Message withdrawn

I would have done exactly the same as you.

And probably thought twice about inviting H next year - poor girl.

Message withdrawn