My dds had some birthday money and dd1 who is 13 and dd2 who is 12 went up the local high street today on there own to river island, now dd1 came back with a red mini skirt and dd2 a pencil skirt now dd1s skirt is not far above the knee and with thick black tights or leggings I think is accceptable, it dosent look tarty at all but dd2 bought a pencil skirt and although its longer it shows off all her curves and makes her look alot older then she is, now dd2 is taller then dd1 and looks older then her 12yrs already and she put the skirt on and it does look nice but I dont think it is approtiate at all, so there has been a almighty row because I want her to take it back she thinks that I am totally being unreasonable as it was her Birthday money, but I would not be happy her wearing it what do you think am I being unreasonable to not want my 12yr old to look older, both girls are into fashion and enjoyed going to River island on their own should I veto all that they by