I feel SOOOO guilty ATM
i have been going on this website and talking to people and everynow and then it wants you to invite your friends goes through your email contact list, which i dont mind because it is a social networking type website.
It invited my contacts today and this girl came up saying she was already a member and it sent a friend request to her, when she accepted i looked in her profile and realised that her DH is this guy i have been speaking to on msn who had told me that he was single and although he had kids he wasnt with the mother.
He had made it clear in these conversations that he wanted to meet up for sex as he only lives 12 miles away from me but i told him that i wasnt looking for that sort of thing and told him i had just come out of a nasty relationship, he then went on to try and tell em that i was exactly what he wanted.
he then went on to ask if i wanted to see his willy to which i replied i didnt but after trying to talk me into saying yes he just lowered the web cam and got himself off right in front of me , i was absolutly gobsmacked, and i know this sounds stupid but at the time i thought it would be rude to close the window (dont ask, i just felt like i couldnt just be rude)afterwards i blocked him on MSN and havent spoken to him since although he has sent me messages!
so after looking at her profile and seeing a pic of her DH i wrote her an email telling her exactly what happened and that if i had been up for sex he probably would have done and may have with omeone else!
at the time it felt like the right thing to do because i would have wanted to know if it was my DH (if i had one) but now i just feel really guilty and for her, i could have just broken up her family god i feel like such a bitch
do you think i should have just kept my nose out? or should i send her a message saying 'only joking' i dont know what to do???
i would have wanted to know but it doesnt mean she would have