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to refuse DS the right to go to nursery in his sister's clothes?

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misshardbroom · 14/10/2008 13:09

DS's nursery has been doing a whole topic about colour: colour themed walks, tasting different coloured food, colour mixing etc., and next week they've (we've?) been asked to wear different coloured clothes (usually they're in uniform).
Monday is yellow, Tuesday is blue, etc. On Friday they can wear their favourite colour.

DS is 4. He is built like a prop forward, plays with trains, laughs at poo jokes and likes playing with other little boys. Oh, and his favourite colour is pink.

He hasn't actually got anything pink as it's never that easy to find boys' clothes in that particular shade (except that polo shirt Joules did last season but it was a fortune). He does, however, have an older sister who has a wide array of pink clobber.

I don't have the slightest problem in sending him to nursery in something pink, but I don't think I can actually send him in girls' clothes.

The really sad thing is that he even knows this himself and says 'it's OK mummy, I'll just tell them my favourite colour is orange so they don't laugh at me'.

dammit.

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oops · 14/10/2008 13:55

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TheRealMrsJohnSimm · 14/10/2008 21:36

I think its wonderful to hear so many MNers talking about DS's wearing pink and sparkly things . DS2 had a cinderella fixation about a year ago....and insisted on a dressing up outfit. He didn't care what anyone else thought and he is very certain of himself for such a young boy. He even wanted to wear it to pre-school but I persuaded him otherwise. It didn't bother me per se, I just worried about how he would feel about the reactions of others. We still have it now in the dressing up box.....he doesn't wear it now but is not quite ready to pass it on!

Stefka · 14/10/2008 21:41

I think your DS is cool. I hope you find him a pink top to wear! I really hate how gendered children's clothes are. I am always trying to find non blue stuff for DS but it's not that easy. I think I will buy him something pink for his birthday next week in honour of your DS!

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