and just stick to birthdays, simply because we all have houses already bursting at the seams with toys, there will be a massive influx of presents from relatives anyway, so the kids won't go without, and it will save us all the hassle of buying the stuff, wrapping it and then writing endless thankyou notes on behalf of the dc's.
Am tempted to suggest it to a few good friends, but will I just come across as being tight? The money really isn't the issue, am more than happy to give presents to others, just don't want any back!
AIBU? (Our dc's are 3 and 1 by the way. They possess pretty much the entire contents of the ELC catalogue so really are not deprived!)