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AIBU?

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to not want to be shouted at for using the pelican crossing correctly?

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Mumi · 09/10/2008 12:50

Not a lot of traffic on the road but I let DS press the button anyway because we never know whether there'll be a boy racer speeding round the corner.

Could see a coach on opposite side trying to overtake a cyclist before the crossing, but it couldn't before the lights change and eventually stopped at red light, but the cyclist carried on. As we crossed, I smiled and made eye contact to let her know she would've collided with us if she she'd gone any further. She eventually stopped but when we'd crossed in good time and she pedalled off again, she started shouting about how we should've hurried up and gotten out of her way.

I felt like shouting back at her but I
a) didn't want to distract her in what was obviously a difficult situation and
b) didn't want to demonstrate as bad an example to DS as she had done, especially as he is autistic

so I just said "that lady was very rude" to DS and left it at that.

Although she didn't have to let the coach overtake at the lights, she might as well have let him go on first after we'd crossed as he would've only tried it on further down the road anyway.

I don't think I'm being YABU but this isn't so much of a rant as wanting to get it off my chest - thought I'd risen above it when it happened last night but still find myself thinking about it now.

What do you think?

OP posts:
colacubes · 09/10/2008 20:39

Good for you using the crossing correctly, stuff em if it bothers them! Not like shes going anywhere in a hurry on a flippin pushbike, grumpy cow!

Better a grumpy cyclist than a child being run over because they think, "will be ok this time if I don't use the crossing", I would have knocked her off her bike and shoved her pump where the sun dont shine!

My niece in law was killed on a crossing and she was using it correctly (age 8), so please dont stop doing the right thing, a very important lesson for children, unfortunately they are only as safe as the motorists using them.

elkiedee · 10/10/2008 17:16

cheshirekitty, why did you move? I'd have shouted back.

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