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To want to turn on Mumsnet and NOT see a chat up line type thread for the more 'curious' ones of us?

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pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:12

Well am I?
Before I get jumped on (easy girls ) I just want to say I have nothing against any type of fantasies that anyone may or may not have, but there is a time and place no?

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QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 08/10/2008 21:27

It is a bit too seedy even for dating. It is not like they are looking for romance. Just sex. With fellow mumsnetters. It seems.

pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:28

Combustiblelemon - I think most women have fantasised about it but fantasies and being, 'confronted with a real life fanjo' especially discussing it, is a little odd.

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QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 08/10/2008 21:28

But hey. I am just wearing my prudey pants.

(They are pink lace, if you are interested)

pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:29

Having an off day today are we BloodandMutts?

If your tired may I suggest you go and have a little sleep elsewhere?

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BloodAndMutts · 08/10/2008 21:29

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Bloodystumperlicious · 08/10/2008 21:29

Link guys?

KerryMumchingOnEyeballs · 08/10/2008 21:29

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pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:30

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow - Thanks to your last post I am now having to try and explain to a vey perplexed hubby why I am dribbling wine form my nostril

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Saturn74 · 08/10/2008 21:31

popped into thread.
not my cup of tea.
thread doesn't bother me though.

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PuzzleRocks · 08/10/2008 21:32

Thanks b&m. True, quite dull actually.

pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:32

KerryMumchingOnEyeballs - Not prudish at all I have no problem if people would like to 'drink from the furry cup' I just find it odd that people are using the thread as some sort of dating site.

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 08/10/2008 21:32

maybe i didn't word that properly, now have visions of huge fanjos attacking people!

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 08/10/2008 21:32

Look, in my time here, I have never seen anything like it. However, I have seen the fallout after a mn affair, and it wasnt pretty!

DumbledoresGirl · 08/10/2008 21:34

Classic MN IMO. I am off to read it.

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zippitippitoes · 08/10/2008 21:35

well people discussing this when they are in relationships would be a bit odd

otherwise i guess it is up to them

pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:35

Everyone remembers the carlk and tamba story? Why would this be any different? It is still cheating.
My biggest fantasy would to be f*ed six ways from Sunday by David Tennant.... but that would be cheating therefore it will remain a fantasy

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zippitippitoes · 08/10/2008 21:35

the op was in a relationship i think

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 08/10/2008 21:36

But Kerry, come on (no pun intended) would mumsnet be your first venue to look for a date?

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 08/10/2008 21:36

The op said she had a husband but would not want him involved.

zippitippitoes · 08/10/2008 21:38

people have got grouchy before now at single women chatting up single men on here or vice versa

pepperpots · 08/10/2008 21:38

I think people are misjudging my reason for posting this thread.

I have NO problem with people experimenting or discussing their fantasies. It actually brightens up a very boring day for me.

I DO however have a problem with people discussing the fact that they are willing to meet up and live out these fantasies whilst still married/in a relationship.

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