I know what the matter is.
He didn't get a sh*g this morning because our DCs were up and about and I couldn't face a nervous stop-start session. He is cross. (West Ham lost but I refuse to accept responsibility for that )
I don't sulk. If I have something to say, I say it. I hate sulking. Normally by now I'd have given in and apologised, or we'd had a row. Don't feel like doing the first (because he's acting like a spoilt brat) and I can't face the second.
He is in a vile mood with everyone. And has spoiled the day. He is an arse. And I don't want to make him feel better about his arsiness. Every time the DCs have rowed, shouted, done anything at all, I've had to jump in to sort it out before he blows his top.
So actually I don't care if I am BU. I am cross. I want him to apologise for being a twat. Anyone want a husband? Slightly used and a bit worn but usually fairly reliable?