There are 6 of us in our NCT group and the babies are between 2 and 3 months old now.
We've all been meeting pretty regularly but there is one girl who is absolutely lovely who hasn't been to many meet-ups. SHe doesn't drive so getting to other people's houses is hard and we haven't seen her for a while.
Anyway, I texted her yesterday to say did she want to come to a meet-up in town (thinking she could get the bus). She replied immediately and said it depended if she could get a lift, so I replied straightaway and asked if there was a cafe near her that she could walk to and we could all meet up there as it would be lovely to see her.
Anyway, she didn't reply and I don't want to phone her now as it will seem like I'm badgering her. She also always communicates by text so seems weird if I were to phone her.
I don't want her to feel left out at all, but at the same time I don't want to make her feel like she has to be involved if she doesn't want to be.
I think she's really lovely, and I remember saying after our first session how nice she seemed.
Anyway - should I just leave her alone, or try to make more effort?
I vaguely discussed this with one of the other girls yesterday and she wondered if she felt left out as she is the only one who is not b/feeding. I am mixed feeding anyway though so she's not the only one using formula.
Should I just leave her alone, or try again to include her?