to be pissed off with DH - actually need to know

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I am feeling crap, migrainey.

I picked up DH from work and said I needed to take pills and go to bed.

He had to feed kids, sned DD to me for reading (she needed to do it and it is a nightmare with both of them about), and then get them to bed.

DD came to me, DS followed, he smeared sh*t on the bed where he hadn't been wiped (took himself to the toilet). DD called DH to say about the poo, he didn't come help "assumed she was making it up", I got up to change bedding, and yelled at DH to sort the shitty arse.

I have ended up staying down here as am now awake and in a dazed stupor from pills & head.

He has refused to let DD get her bear so she is yelling and sobbing.

He is glaring at me.

I offered food as he said he was starving, and he now says he wants none, so I can have nothing 9all our stuff in atm is for at least 2 people, nothing much snacky).

Want to cry.

AIBU to have asked to sleep off this??

No YANBU, but I think it sounds like you are all feeling stressed and/or ill and it's just one of those evenings. Can you go to bed now? Maybe just try to ignore kids and let DH deal with it in his own way....

he is there and you aren't well, unless you are pulling a sickie then no, yanbu.
As course he might not be feeling well, but if that is the case he should have said.

They are being really loud up there, happy loud, but still loud, and now my brain is zinging and I can't settle (hence being on here).

I'm so tired and worrying about not being well for the morning.

Bloody men!!!

YANBU, I had this the other week only my dp did let me lie in bed, I had food poisoning and went to bed (dd's were out with my dad but I had been in the middle of cleaning so dp had to finish it all off) he put them to bed, I still didn't end up sleeping until 1am though. Dp did make a point of running off a list of things he had done "for me" grrrrrrr, when you're not well you just wanna be left alone!

just get your head under the duvet and ignore them all. he's a grown-up. he'll cope.

cook something and make him eat the other half tomorrow

lol h ave just had that conversation with him =- dinner in oven now

Good for you - leave him the washing up too