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AIBU?

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...to offer neighbour no explanation...

7 replies

FfreckleFface · 29/09/2008 17:39

...and leave her thinking I am world's worst parent.

Was just out at washing line, trying to beat black cloud looming above us, and smiled over fence at neighbour.

In the background, obviously audible to neighbour, little Ff (7mo) was making her current favourite noise, a high pitched shriek, coupled with the occasional shouty grunt. I could see her through the window, safely strapped in high chair, banging rattle on the tray and merrily grinning away at the unholy din she was making. However, I can appreciate that to concerned looking neighbour it sounded as though she was being murdered, and was shouting for her mean and neglectful mammy.

Was IBU to just smile and carry on taking down washing from the line? All other women on my street will probably have their suspicions about my unsuitability for parenthood confirmed now!

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memoo · 29/09/2008 17:53

YANBU

Lowfat · 29/09/2008 17:57

If you can see your child and can get to your child and are happy they are okay then why do you need to explain yourself to a neighbour???

When I hang my washing out in the garden and DS is in highchair I am as close to him as I would be if I was in the living room watching TV and he was in his hig-chair. In fact I might even be closer.

I cant work out if that means YABU or YANBU, but whatever way it is dont get hung up on other peopls views of your parenting!!

FfreckleFface · 29/09/2008 18:03

I would never get hung up on other people's views of my parenting.

Made me chuckle to wonder what she was thinking though.

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monkeymonkeymonkey · 29/09/2008 18:24

Dont worry, she will probably post on AIBU herself later on, and then you can explain

ImnotMamaGbutsheLovesMe · 29/09/2008 18:27

Stop it right now!!

No more caring what other people think.

Tortington · 29/09/2008 18:30

darling - your going to need to get a pair of balls really quickly
repete sil vous plait

fuck em
all

FfreckleFface · 29/09/2008 18:46

I have a rather large pair actually

Was taking the piss - I know full well that I don't have to explain myself to others, which is why I took such pleasure in staying silent.

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