what is it with men and fecking fireworks? we're having a party tonight. a friend has had a load of fireworks delivered. very kind. but imo misguided. net result is that I have a hideous feeling of butterflies and doom in my stomach taht will not go away until the fecking things are over and we still have 12 uninjured (but probably stressed and crying) kids. I said I didn;t want them. dh said he did. aibu to not want this extra hassle and stress? not to mention sodding risk of serious injury.