To be really furious with dh?

[themildmannneredjanitor]

i know it seems like i am throwing my dummy out of the pram but i am SO cross with him!

he was away monday, tus, wednesday.

got back at 7 on wed-in time to meet me coming out of parents evening with both kids.

we then had to drop kids off with friend and do siansburys and then come home and get them bathed and in bed. we didn't sit down to talk until nerarl 10pm and as i had been in work all day and was full of cold-i was ready for bed.

i asked him to be home in time for a family dinner last night . he said he'd be home for 6 but didn't come home till 7.

he's now just phoned and said he wants to go to the pub with his workmates.

So amibu to be pisssed off that it is just expected that i will deal with fucking everything on my own all fucking week?

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am i now being unreasonable to give the kids crisps and pop to keep them going and prepare no dinner? and when he comes home tell him it's his turn?

Yes - give them blue pop and/or red bull so they will behave as badly as possible, them when he comes in, go up and barricade yourself in the bath for at least 2 hours (joke btw)

they have garlic sticks and orange juice and are playing on the wii.

am pissed off. have cooked every single night this week. he is taking the mickey.

he's home. walke din like everything is ok and has sat on the sofa. how long before he figures out there is no dinner.

man, the suspense is killing me.

So he didn't go to the pub then?

yes. finished work early.

omg!! now he's playing on the wii with them!!!! no mention of them being fed at all!!![steam pours from ears]

But he only said he was going at just before 6. He can barely have time to have knocked back a pint. Lightweight

no-he phoned me at 5.15 while i was still at the park with the kids.

Ah. Sorry . Misunderstood the OP.
DH has just got home, but that is usual. Has taken the children off to pick raspberries. He'll put them to bed. I do tea. Do you usually share the cooking?

Have a straight talk when the chldren are in bed. Don't fume silently.

i will.

he just doesn't get it at all.

I hate to say this but he is home already after going to the pub, that sounds really good to me. DH gets home at 7 most nights so never does any thing else. But then i am SAHM so it is not like i trying to do everything lke mmj.

but i asked him last night to be home to have dinner with us. he wasn't. he could have been tonight but chose not to.
dyswim?

he says he can't get home early but he can finish early to go to the pub.

if you had a prior arrangemne i would be annoyed, make him cook a nice dinner for all of you tomorrow night. But it sounds like you have had a hard week, so try and finnish the aargument and play wii with dh, i am sure you missed him and maybe start the weekend again?

he is in the kitchen cooking. i am on mumsnet with a large gin and tonic. there will be words once the kids are in bed.

good, i am terrible at keeping things bottled up and can ruin a whole weekend over one incident, i hpe you will be able to forgive and enjoy dinner

Any update? LOL

nice to see it's amusing araminta.