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to be considering postponing DS3's Christening (again) - because I can't find a half decent organist???

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FAQ · 24/09/2008 16:39

DS3 was going to be Christened in May - but our vicar was off ill, I wasn't well either, and it was cancelled.

It's now been re-booked for the 30th November. I've got the church hall booked for the afternoon so we'll have a faith lunch (bring and share) afterwards. Nothing else has been done yet, invites haven't been sent out, cake hasn't been made etc etc.

I'm the organist normally - but due to the position of the font - I can't really play for the service. I'm not a great organist - but I consider myself to be half decent. I had a fantastic organist that played for DS2's Christening and want someone of a half decent standard for DS3's.

So far my only 2 options can't do it, a 3rd may be able to (but tbh he's really not that good and lots of the congregation have to come up to me and commented about the slow hymns/wrong notes etc when he's played) - he's a really lovely guy though so I don't want to upset him.

My only other option is someone who is really a guitar player, with a little bit of piano knowledge, when she's covered for me before she plays the piano (and she herself admits piano isn't her thing and she struggles with it - and it shows).

I really want an organist, have some fantastic hymns in mind (the perks of being the organist - I get to pick all the hymns for my DS's christening ) , but don't want them played on the piano/badly.

I'm sorely tempted to postpone until I can get someone decent (my 2nd option would have been delighted to do it - but will be Norway and Sweden examining for the ABRSM)......

If I cancel now the only thing that has to be done is the extra reading added in (they usually drop one for the Baptism service) and un-book the hall........

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FAQ · 25/09/2008 20:18

wow - how lucky!

He didn't alter the metronome speed upwards did he - I'd have been well and truly stuff

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tortoiseshell · 25/09/2008 20:18

NO, think was downwards!

FAQ · 25/09/2008 20:19

lucky Windsor..........

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tortoiseshell · 25/09/2008 20:27

Their last one had to leave rather suddenly.

FAQ · 25/09/2008 20:32

I suppose they had to take whoever they could get

Actually no - I know he's a good organist. We fell out when he made it clear that he didn't think that females should play the organ . I also never understood why he took up the St. Mary's post.......he's against girls in Cathedral choirs (well his stance may have changed now I suppose.....) yet took up a post in the first Cathedral in the country to have girls AND boys singing in the same choir (as opposed to a girls choir, and boys choir).

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DanJARMouse · 25/09/2008 20:39

HIJACK! Oi Missy - Cutting down thread please!

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