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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think gobbing in the street is unacceptable?

52 replies

Buckets · 22/09/2008 14:51

Why do so many men do it? I blame footballers, why are they allowed to do it on the pitch? Can't they hock up in the lavs before a game? Can we start a Mumsnet campaign to program our sons, roping in premiership footballers and their mums?

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Servalan · 22/09/2008 15:22

Tis utterly vile

If people really need to spit, maybe they should spit into a tissue - discretely

lulabellarama · 22/09/2008 16:04

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jette · 22/09/2008 16:30

Its absolutely fucking disgusting. I used to live in the scum-magnet that is Whitechapel where I saw/heard a man hoik it all up, close off one nostril and eject it all out the other one. Not sure if that's still considered spitting. At least I was so shocked I had the courage to say something - and I haven't looked back.

FattipuffsandThinnifers · 22/09/2008 16:42

YA absolutely NBU. As jette said so succinctly, it is absolutely fucking disgusting, and it actually makes me gag if I see it. It's not just men either, I was once walking behind a normal-looking 30-something woman at Oval tube who spat to her side just when I was walking past and it landed on my shoe. I was retching all the way to work afterwards.

Mrshall · 22/09/2008 16:45

I absolutely can't stand it especially when your trying to negotiate a toddler along the pavement trying to avoid dog poo and spit!

misdee · 22/09/2008 16:46

can soemone else tell my dd1 this pelase?

cos no matter how many times dh and i rant at her about spitting, she stil ldoes it

MamaFormerlyKnownAsGlam · 22/09/2008 16:49

jette I still live in the scum-magnet that is Whitechapel. I can hear the noise(in 2 stages) whwrever I am in the flat, with the windows closed.
Let me tell you, as soon as DS is walking, he'll be on reins.

jette · 22/09/2008 16:52

Hi Mama - Actually Whitechapel really does have a lot going for it but there is a HELLUVA LOT of spitting going on!

OrmIrian · 22/09/2008 16:54

No. It's horrible. Makes me want to retch TBH. I went on a field trip years ago with a lad who not only used to spit but also to blow his nose without a hankie and then shake the resulting mess off his hand.

poshtottie · 22/09/2008 17:42

I have witnessed a group of teenage girls in their school uniforms doing it aswell whilst rolling their own fags in the middle of the high st. Disgusting.

Buckets · 22/09/2008 19:36

Am suspicious of joggers/runners too, I've heard many would rather wee in their shorts than interrupt a run (or wee beforehand). Is this true?

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wotulookinat · 22/09/2008 19:38

The Muslim lady at the end of my road keeps spitting on the pavement at the mo. It's Ramadan and she isn't allowed to swallow. The road has many little splatters of spittle and flob on the pavement. Not very nice when DS falls in it.

noonki · 22/09/2008 19:46

I had to ask a group of teenagers to stop spiting in the playpark...

explained DS keeps falling over still and kind of bless them they went out the children's bit ahhhh (don't spit at all you filthy scum I wanted to say but they were big and harder than me!)

OrmIrian · 22/09/2008 20:49

God no buckets!

But then again I'm not exactly marathon runner material

I will always find a hedge.

blowsy · 22/09/2008 20:52

I'm heaving at the thought.

I always tell people off if I see them doing this. Once, some bloke chased me through the high street and threw something at me!

My dh is convinced I will be murdered one day, but I hate spitting - it is beyond vile.

mppaw · 22/09/2008 21:07

While waiting for my scan in a NHS hospital on Friday, a woman walked past us, she worked there as had a white uniform on, she then turned a corner and all we heard was a massive "Draw-back" and then her cough it up into her throat/mouth. EEEWWWWWEEEE

YNBU...FACT

FairLadyRantALot · 22/09/2008 21:11

It is a vile habit...makes me want to puke [barf emoticon]

As for footballers...why they would want to do it on teh playing field, whne they should know rather well they spend some time on the ground and possibly slide through the phlegm....shudder....double barf....

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 22/09/2008 21:11

Foul habit. Bleurgh.

LavenderTea · 22/09/2008 21:14

ugh Grossss !! Yes it should be banned. I read they tried to Ban it in Bejing for the Olympics to show China as a civilised nation. Britain shoud take a leaf out of China's book then.....

laweaselmys · 22/09/2008 21:23

I have to sometimes!! (please don't attack me)

My breathing is a pile of shite because of asthma and other things. If I get proper phlegm (instead of just saliva) building up in my mouth I have to spit it out because if I swallowed it it just comes back a few seconds later causes a massive coughing fit and sets off my asthma. (great)

Buuuut, in my defence, I will always determinedly hold it in my mouth to find an open bin/bathroom if I haven't got a tissue, and have very rarely been forced to spit in a gutter grate because I can't find anywhere else. I'm always embarrassed because of all the judging. yes you people, I mean yoooou.

LavenderTea · 22/09/2008 21:33

I'm gonna be sick......laweaselmys you would be in a terrible state if you lived in China.

You don't, do you??

I think you should......

Blandmum · 22/09/2008 21:36

No need to do it on the street. If you need to gop, do it like laweaselmys into a tissue.

Disgusting and unhygenic habit.

they should have to lick the pavements clean!

OrmIrian · 23/09/2008 08:09

laweaselmys - I have the same issues. But like you, I use a tissue. Not sure why anyone would find it that difficult

Buckets · 23/09/2008 11:10

And there's always handkerchiefs for the eco-warriors ...

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emj23 · 23/09/2008 11:13

I saw another mum gobbing on the ground outside the school gates yesterday. A lovely example to set the children.

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