dd is 5 and a half, long story but living (pay rent and bills) with my mum at moment for the last 10 months, DDs behaviour has gone rapidly down hill because my mother who was VERY strict with me lets dd do what she wants inc being rude, answering back etc, she was such a good girl before coming here!
Tonight dd mucking about getting in and out of bed, i told her ten minutes ago that I had had enough and to go to bed and stay in bed this time, dd threw a stop hit me and stormed to bed and starting screaming and throwing a strop, i told her off for hitting and went downstairs.
Could hear dd and nanna upstairs, went upstairs and said dd has been sent back to bed, shes messing about and its 8.30, my mum said oh shes showing me a picture she drew, couldnt be bothered with the fight so said show the picture and then go straight to bed. DD looked smug and walked past me to her nanna punching me on the way past. I tell her off, my mum said oh thats my fault I said come show me the picture, I reply Im not bothered what she was doing she does NOT hit me and went downstairs
My mum has just come down screaming at me that I have made her feel shit when she already feels shit and ill with a cold and she didnt see her hit me (in other words accusing me of lying, and stormed upstairs making excuses for dd, she will now not talk to me tommorow but continue to badly influence dd!
My mother is turning my sweet natured 5 year old into a horrible child, Im fuming!