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To have completely lost it with Royal Mail, telling the customer services ...

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SalLikesCoffee · 11/09/2008 21:32

... lady that I know she can't give a damn, but that it would be good if they would do the jobs they're paid to do?? I might have been a little, as it's not actually her fault that it all went wrong in the first place, but some compassion would have been good!

History: Home Office posted our passports via recorded delivery. No card left to say we weren't in. By the time we contacted HO again, they gave us ref no to find out from RM. RM then said oh, maybe postman forgot (!!!) and that they didn't know who to return it to, and that it was sent to Belfast central sorting office, where it would stay for weeks before opening (according to customer services).

After even more calls, demands to speak to manager, etc etc, "manager" promised that they've highlighted this as urgent (DH has to fly for work next week), and that it would be returned directly to us, not to HO. I even got a call from a lady in Belfast confirming they've found it, and that it would be sent to us directly.

Nothing received by Tues, so called PO again, only to be told it's been returned to HO, but they couldn't tell us which dept! It's at this point where I told her it's rediculous and not as promised, and she said I'm lying, no-one would have called me to say what I'm insisting. It's here where I lost it.

After repeated calls to H Office, they confirmed that it has been sent to us again - recorded delivery. Well, when I got home today, there was an envelope thrown through the gate (where others have access). Oh, guess what - our passports. Sorry, this last bit was just me moaning (still).

Should I have been nicer?

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SalLikesCoffee · 12/09/2008 11:04

Thanks - feel a bit better about it now. I agree with Peachy, I'd much rather pay a little more knowing that it would actually reach the intended recipient.

Not sure if it'll work, but I think I'm also going to write to the Home Office dept that handled our visas, explaining that Recorded isn't seen as safe anymore. As others on here have said, parts of Home Office uses Special Delivery (I didn't know that), so hopefully they can all change, even if they have to charge a little extra.

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lauraloola · 12/09/2008 12:12

No way - I am sick of having soaking wet mail - My dd's birth certificate was soaked and our mail man cant seem to put post all the way through my letter box so its hanging out.

Im scared to complain incase my mail starts going missing.

chuggabopps · 12/09/2008 13:27

dont be scared- the people you speak to when you complain are many miles away from the delivery officer that comes to your house.
if more people complain then not only is there greater evidence to investigate theft/fraud but also the fact that they have a financial incentive to improve because of the goodwill and postage refund that they pay out if you do, in addition to needing more Customer Service resource to cope with the influx.

To keep a little perspective though- the number of letters that you have a problem with is only a very small percentage of the number of letters you recieve over a lifetimes service. Its just that its the really important ones to you that you remember- RM cant differentiate between the ones that matter to you or not they have to deliver everything. Report every incident- and get the flag case unit, postwatch and even your MP involved- its what they are there for.

Achiea · 22/06/2009 12:37

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SoupDragon · 22/06/2009 12:40

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